Don't Give Up On Finding Love Like Kim Kardashian

Wed, November 30, 2011 2:53pm EST by 18 Comments

Your Mr. (or Mrs.) right is out there somewhere, but you have to be willing to make a few sacrifices!

I know you’re all probably sick of hearing about Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries’ divorce, and that’s exactly why I’m giving you my final thoughts — so we can all move on with our lives. In a new Glamour interview, Kim says, “What I want isn’t possible. I feel like maybe I’m not supposed to have kids. Maybe my fairy tale has a different ending than I dreamed it would.” That sure doesn’t sound like someone who’s sincerely heartbroken over a 72-day marriage.

Also, is it just me or does all of this seem to be happening ironically around the same time the new season of their TV show is airing? Well, either way, it sucks! We all wanted Kim to find her Prince Charming, get married and have babies like she always talked about — but now that she finally found him, she just threw him in the trash! Just like that?

With so many rumors going around about why she decided to file for divorce after only 72 days, it’s hard to decide if the whole marriage was for real to begin with, or strictly just for TV. I’m going to try to be fair here, setting aside the whole TV thing for a minute, and just focus on the marriage:

We all want to find that special someone to be with at the end of the day. We all want to find our Prince (or Princess) Charming to call our own. I’m a Scorpio, so when it comes to falling in love or finding love, I cherish it with all my heart and soul! That’s exactly what a marriage should be. I empathize with couples who have been married a long time, then realize 10 or 20 years down the road that the marriage has run its course. At least they can look back and say they tried. But in Kim’s case, she didn’t even give the marriage a chance! While we may not know exactly what happened within their relationship, I can honestly say 72 days doesn’t leave much room to “work things out.”

If Kim doesn’t slow down and get her priorities together, she may risk never finding true love again. Sometimes, in order to find happiness, you must make a sacrifice. In this case, Kim needs to either just focus on being a reality star and find someone else who is willing to work with her to have a “business marriage,” or she really needs to cut back on exploiting so much of her life for TV and spend a little down time away from the cameras.

Stop and smell the flowers, Kim! Allow yourself some genuine time off to be with your lover. Something as sacred as marriage shouldn’t be shared with the world; that’s something that should be cherished between you and your loved one behind closed doors. All of those intimate, special moments you have together — you need to keep some of them just for you two!

You may want to have your cake and eat it too, but in the real world, things just don’t work out that way. If you don’t do some self-reflecting on the choices you make, they will end up haunting you for the rest of your life.

That’s all for today! Until next time… over and out!

— Miss Tila

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