Demi Moore Divorcing Ashton Kutcher Makes Her An Inspiration To All Women

Wed, November 23, 2011 12:53pm EDT by 33 Comments
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Demi tried to work on her marriage to Ashton & now she’s showing us all that sometimes you have to say, ‘Enough is enough!’

Hello, boys and girls! Welcome back to my weekly Wednesday columns where I get to dish out my thoughts on the most recent events in pop culture. This week, I’d like to discuss the much-talked about scandal involving Ashton Kutcher, and Demi Moore. She’s divorcing Ashton after he was caught cheating multiple times — and that’s just what the public knows about so far!

This leads me to think: “If Ashton Kutcher has been caught cheating this many times publicly, how many more times has he cheated on Demi without getting caught? I say ‘once a cheater, always a cheater!'”

That’s a serious problem, and if I were Demi, that’s exactly what I’d be asking myself. I think Demi is making the right move by filing for divorce. Ashton’s been caught cheating several times now, and Demi appears to have stuck by him throughout the entire ordeal to keep their marriage together. But I feel like there are certain times in a relationship when you have to say “enough is enough!”

Ashton knows he’s in the spotlight, and every move he makes will eventually leak out one way or another, so I find his behavior completely disrespectful, thoughtless and insensitive to his wife — especially after being married for so long! Demi has always been a fine example of a beautiful, classy woman, whereas Ashton Kutcher was just an air-headed male model who pretty much played himself on That 70’s Show.

Without Demi, I don’t think Ashton would have made it this far as an actor — so for him to cheat on his wife, and publicly humiliate her multiple times, is even more wrong! While age may be nothing but a number, maturity has everything to do with your actions, and you are inevitably responsible for the outcomes of the choices that you make.

Aside from cheating, Ashton’s handlers and manager have recently had to take over his Twitter account to monitor everything that he tweets, which only further proves to us just how immature he is! It’s like he needs a babysitter to watch him 24/7 now because everything he does seems to get him into trouble. A grown man who has a team of people to monitor his every move? How embarrassing! Ashton needs a major reality check and grow up! I think this divorce will do him good, and could possibly be a life-changing wake-up call.

So I’m team Demi all the way! She can do so much better than him, and like I said before — once a cheater, always a cheater. Why would anyone want to torture themselves by staying in a relationship like that when the trust has been broken? I would recommend some married couples try to work out their problems before calling it quits (like Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries. Only 72 days, and they’re already throwing in the towel? Seriously?! Not cool. Not even trying. But let’s save that topic for another day.) But in this particular case, Demi is doing right by divorcing Ashton. You can tell she hung in there for as long as she could for the sake of their marriage, but it takes two to tango, and there’s no real relationship if you’re just working at it alone.

I really hope Demi doesn’t have a change of heart. Following through with her plans to divorce Ashton will remind everyone that she has self-respect, and that she’s a strong, independent woman. I’m sure making this decision wasn’t easy for her, but that’s why I applaud her for finally standing up for herself, and letting him know that she can live her life without him. Demi, you can have any man in the world, and you deserve to be treated better! You will be an inspiration to women everywhere who are in the same situation.

I can’t say too much more about Ashton, except “What goes around comes around. Welcome to the Douche-Bag-of-the-Year club! You’ve just earned yourself some major fail points. Congrats!”

‘Til next time… over and out!

— Miss Tila