Kim Kardashian: Don't Divorce Kris Humphries — Get Counseling!

Mon, October 31, 2011 4:45pm EDT by 14 Comments

Kim — your husband Kris Humphries still loves you and is willing to do whatever it takes to make your marriage work!

You owe it to him and to yourself to give your marriage a second chance. If Kris is willing to stick with you and your marriage — and he says he is — then you two should head to a marriage counselor and NOT to divorce attorneys.

“I love my wife and am devastated to learn she filed for divorce,” Kris told TMZ.com today. “I’m willing to do whatever it takes to make it work.”

Kim — he says he’s “committed to this marriage and everything this covenant represents.” That means, he is NOT viewing his marriage as a publicity stunt nor does he see it as just fodder for one of your family’s reality shows.

He’s saying that he proposed to you and wanted to marry you because HE LOVES YOU! Just because he doesn’t want to film and have cameras following the two of you around 24/7 and he wants privacy for your marriage, doesn’t mean he wants a divorce.

He’s viewing your disagreements as just that — disagreements which he is willing to work on. It even sounds like he has spoken to Joel Johnson, the pastor who married the two of you.

We spoke exclusively to Pastor Johnson and he told Hollywoodlife.com that he wanted to connect with you Kim and “try to pull the reigns back and redirect this energy in a more redemptive way.”

The pastor is right and Kris has the right attitude. He wants to work at his marriage and you should too!

“They should seek marriage counseling and give it substantial time to see if their marriage could work,” says relationship expert Diana Falzone. “Obviously one or both parties wanted instant gratification bu marriages require work! Plain and simple.”

Falzone says that if it’s true that Kim threw in the towel after Kris said that he didn’t want to be filmed any more then “her priorities are sadly skewed.” Marriage is NOT a publicity stunt and needs to be held with respect.

Kim — that’s so true. You need to treat both Kris and YOUR marriage with respect. If you loved Kris on Aug. 20 when you said your wedding vows, then surely you have feelings for him still.

You need to forget about your career demands for a few minutes and think about the feelings of the man you promised to love and cherish.

Also have some respect for your own feelings. You deserve to have a private life. Not just a reality TV life.

I think it’s extremely commendable that Kris isn’t furious or standing on pride right now. No, he is acting maturely and standing up for the marriage that he committed to. It shows he has qualities that you, Kim, should want in a husband!

You owe it to Kris and yourself to get good counseling and see if you can make your marriage work!

— Bonnie Fuller

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