Don’t Blame Lindsay Lohan For Her Obnoxious, Entitled Behavior, Blame Her Parents!

Fri, October 21, 2011 5:40pm EDT by 7 Comments

If you want to slap some sense into self-destructive Lindsay — don’t. Save your anger for her selfish, opportunistic parents who are using Lindsay to get the attention THEY crave!

When Lindsay Lohan showed up at the LA morgue 40 minutes late to perform her judge-ordered community service on Oct. 20, jaws dropped everywhere! Did she have absolutely no respect for the law? Was there no line she wouldn’t cross? Was she begging to be thrown back into jail?

How can Lindsay not see how she has destroyed a once A-list film career and with every DUI, theft conviction, trip to rehab, jail term, dressing-down by a judge AND nights out of partying, she is hammering more nails into the coffin of her former career.

But much as you’d like to blame Lindsay, who at 25, should be an adult, you can’t. “She has the mentality of a child,” insists psychotherapist Dr. Gilda Carle. “She’s never been taught any values or coping skills by her parents.”

Instead, Lindsay’s parents Dina — and Michael Lohan — are using her to get the rewards of media attention, and they care far more about that than the mental health of their daughter, believes Dr. Carle.

Psychotherapist, Dr. Robi Ludwig of DrRobiLudwig.com agrees. “She’s a very talented girl who has an addiction and probably an undiagnosed mood disorder, but having two fame hungry parents doesn’t help.”

Lindsay’s extreme behavior is a statement to both her parents that “they did a lousy job raising her,” says Dr. Ludwig. And the reality is that she’s out in the world without any anchors.”

Lindsay, going to court in a $9,000 outfit — Fendi dress and Chanel purse — with a smirk on her face, may not look like  a lost little girl, but sadly she is. She is so emotionally unmoored and desperate for attention, to replace the parental love she doesn’t have, that she can’t see how she has ruined her career.

“She just doesn’t understand that her behavior affects whether or not she can get jobs,” says Dr. Carle, of DrGilda.com

She may even be having an extended temper tantrum, says Dr. Ludwig, as a way to get back at her parents. “She’s angry with them and maybe she unconsciously wants to destroy her career because she’s tired of supporting her family.”

Now, I know that it requires a lot of patience still to have an iota of sympathy for Lindsay because she’s so unbearably annoying, but think of it this way — Lindsay truly is alone and unloved.

She’s using drugs and alcohol to numb her pain.

Would you cope any better if your parents were using you since when you were a child to get money and fame? Wouldn’t you be sad, angry and self-destructive?

When you actually imagine walking in Lindsay’s shoes — even if they’re Louboutins — aren’t you glad you’re anybody but her!

— Bonnie Fuller

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Maggs

Posted at 11:24 AM on October 27, 2011  

SHE’S A GROWN AZZ WOMAN….SHE NEEDS TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITIES FOR HER ACTIONS! SHE’S TRASH AND SO ARE HER BUM PARENTS….THE WHOLE FAMILY NEEDS PROFESSIONAL HELP. THEY SHOULD ALL GET A REAL JOB AND STOP BEING A NASTY MEDIA HOE’S…….ITS NOT CUTE GETTING ARRESTED, USING DRUGS, DRUNK DRIVING, AND BEING A HOE BAG.

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anne

Posted at 4:12 PM on October 24, 2011  

dina should start being ok to be friends with ur kids but be a mother first and lindsay is old enoght to start taking responsabillty for her own actions and her parents need to find real jobs instead of using living of there kids its disgusting

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perfection

Posted at 2:42 AM on October 24, 2011  

another person (this headline) telling lindsey don’t blame yourself, don’t take responsibility for your actions it is all someone else’s fault therefore you have no part of it. stupid headline she needs to take blame and straighten herself out or she will not be in this world for long and headlines like this do not help- be more responsible hl

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gbtw

Posted at 8:59 PM on October 22, 2011  

her parents are pigs. it’s impossible to know which one is worse. dina seems the worst right now, b/c she’s there, but if michael were in the limelight with lindsay- and dina was out- he’d be the bigger pig. but, as someone said, she needs to snap out of it b/c it’s her life and she is the one that needs to live it. she needs to find that support system she does not have with her parents, and she needs to cut both of them out of her life… but, hard to do. all kids love their parents, even when their parents don’t deserve it.

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lara

Posted at 7:24 AM on October 22, 2011  

true!

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concerned

Posted at 10:55 PM on October 21, 2011  

at some point all people need to take responsibility for themselves – if your parents were abusive, sucked, overinduldged etc you can either get over it, seek help and move on or in her case probably die – she is a grown woman and needs to take control cause no one else is going to – wish her the best

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tmrw

Posted at 7:24 PM on October 21, 2011  

I feel that both Lindsay and her parents are to blame for the way she turned out. Lindsay’s parents are to blame because they pimped her since she was a child. They used her to support them and give them fame. They should have loved Lindsay unconditionally.

Lindsay is to blame, too. She is an adult and making poor choices for her life. She had it all and is blowing it. I hope she gets help before it’s too late.

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