Should You Be In Control Of Your Man Like Kristen Stewart & Selena Gomez Are?

Mon, September 12, 2011 12:11pm EDT by 11 Comments

Does this make guys like Robert Pattinson and Justin Bieber wonderful or just plain whipped?

It’s not uncommon to find that, in relationships, one person loves more than the other. Guys like Robert Pattinson, Justin Bieber and Brad Pitt exemplify this trend; they seem to be whipped by the ladies in their lives. But should you have almost total control over your man like Kristen Stewart, Selena Gomez and Angelina Jolie seem to do?

The Biebs, 17, appears to be following his older woman, 19-year-old Selena, around the globe. Brad Pitt is often found toting around he and Angie’s six kids. R-Patz may be a vampire, but he’s constantly making wolfy puppy dog eyes at K-Stew…and I can’t even get into how whipped Kris Humphries is — his whole personality has been consumed by wife Kim Kardashian and her family.

The results of a recent poll on HollywoodLife.com indicates that you think Rob, 25, and Justin are the most whipped guys in Hollywood. At weigh-in time, the “Baby” singer was winning in the whipped games with 41.84% of the votes; the Breaking Dawn was a close second with 38.73%.

But is it a bad thing to be wearing the pants in your relationship?

To some women, love is all about control. If they can’t call the shots, they’re not happy. Similarly, strong women like Kristen, 21, and Angelina, 36, think they like to take the lead, but are also happy when the guys in their lives stand up to them. It’s a give and take relationship.

Any partner having complete control over the other isn’t a good thing. You want your man to be your equal. It’s human nature to want what we can’t have and ignore what comes too easily, especially for the less highly evolved. That said, each of the couples mentioned seems to have found what works for them.

It’s nice to be adored by the guy in your life, but don’t turn him into a slobbering puppy dog. I guarantee you, the longer he’s following in your footsteps, the more bored you’ll become.

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BABYPINK

Posted at 4:52 AM on September 14, 2011  

i hate you robsten haters!if you don’t like this don’t read.

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J.G

Posted at 8:14 PM on September 12, 2011  

rob just acted like a whipped pussy in the beginning, now he seems to care less and just does not seem into the realationship. Maybe because kristen looks like she wears the pants in the relationship. Especially when she always tries to correct him its soo annoying.

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smile

Posted at 5:14 PM on September 12, 2011  

i think selena control justin more perfectly than kristen

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redzippy

Posted at 1:45 PM on September 12, 2011  

what article are you people reading. They both travel to each other and there is NO EVIDENCE of either Rob or Kristen hooking up. No real pictures just spite.

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lee

Posted at 12:43 PM on September 12, 2011  

LOL Is that the reason why kristen is always running all over the world to remind Rob of her existence, whereas he could care less about her…. ahahaa

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Tina

Posted at 12:41 PM on September 12, 2011  

Rob NEVER cares about kristen, he is always found hooking up with random people while she is running all over the world to beg him to not break up with her. Never does he go to her sets.

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John

Posted at 12:39 PM on September 12, 2011  

When has Rob done ONE thing for stewart especially? She is the biggest clinger of all time. He cannot be more disgusted by her if the only reason that brought him to London while she was there was an important event of his relative’s baptism.

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c

Posted at 12:39 PM on September 12, 2011  

angelina is so not in control.. if she were brad wouldn’t be running around with that other girl

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jojo

Posted at 12:38 PM on September 12, 2011  

I think Rob and Kris have 50/50 partnership. Their personalities perfectly balanced to each other. If u see them on interviews Kris is more reserved and Rob is the wild one … they are so pefect to each other. Hope to see them together get married.

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Robsten

Posted at 12:24 PM on September 12, 2011  

Kristen Stewart is not in control

They both support each other and listen to their ideas. They both visit each other on set.

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Robsten

Posted at 12:19 PM on September 12, 2011  

Rob + Kristen = Robsten
They both support each other.

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