Should You Take It Slowly When Reconnecting With An Ex Like Taylor Swift Seems To Be Doing With Taylor Lautner?

Tue, August 30, 2011 12:11pm EDT by 13 Comments
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Or do you throw caution to the wind and just go for regardless of how things turned out last time?

It was a media-friendly fairytale when Taylor Swift and Taylor Lautner fell in love while shooting Valentine’s Day in 2009; their love story was just too cute. Although they split mere months after finally getting together, they seem to have recently rekindled their romance. But is the 21-year-old country starlet making a mistake by taking things slow this time around?

Although it was reported that the split was caused by their dual hectic schedules, the songbird seems to be telling a different story in her song “Back to December”; in the song she says she wants to reunite with an ex that she treated badly. If the song wasn’t about the 19-year-old Twilight star, it is now: during her Aug. 28 at LA’s Staples Center, she changed the words, singing, “this song is for the boy from Michigan.”

Yes, you guessed it correctly: Breaking Dawn’s hunky wereboy is from Michigan. The singer has been singing her new tune and many of her recent concerts. However, this was the first time she’s ever addressed her ex directly.

For his part, Taylor showed his former girlfriend complete support, and was even spotted “dancing like crazy” to her hit “Love Story.” The two then shared an intimate hug afterwards.

While it’s true the two are close, and their actions might be misconstrued as friendship, an artist doesn’t change the words to his or her songs very often — and they most certainly don’t single out one famous ‘friend’ when so many others are in attendance following the VMAs (which included another ex, Joe Jonas, Reese Witherspoon, Garrett Hedlund, Nicki Minaj and Ashley Greene). My thoughts are that they’re slowly and surely getting back together.

If this is the case, Taylor is completely correct to take her time and feel things out. If she didn’t think things were right with him before, she had a good reason. They do have a two-year age difference, which doesn’t mean much when you’re over 30, but at 21 it means quite a lot. At 19, Taylor L. is legally still a boy.

When you’re getting back together with an ex, it’s right to pace yourself. You want to make sure you don’t make the same mistakes a second time around, and sometimes it takes awhile to get things right. Plus, if a relationship is worth waiting for, then you can be certain that it’s right.

Remember, you can’t always hurry love.

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