Is It Cool To Party Separately From Your Man Like Kristen Stewart Did?

Tue, August 16, 2011 12:11pm EDT by Hollywood Life Staff 25 Comments

Should you be off having fun away from your BF, or do you always need to be together?

Kristen Stewart is off shooting Snow White and the Huntsman in her man’s native London, while boyfriend Robert Pattinson is in her hometown of Los Angeles hanging out before he starts filming Unbound Captives. That said, both are letting off steam by hitting some very exclusive nightclubs in different cities. Should they be sitting at home until they’re with one another, or is partying separately perfectly OK?

K-Stew, 21, was spied drinking at Soho House London on August 12 while 25-year-old Rob was caught at the establishment’s LA counterpart, Soho House Los Angeles, on August 13. He was also spotted hanging out at British artist Adele‘s LA show last night.

Is it weird that the starlet feels comfortable going out without her Breaking Dawn co-star/boyfriend? No way! What is she supposed to do: sit listlessly in her hotel room like Rapunzel waiting for Rob to come and save her so she can let her hair down?

A lot of women get a boyfriend and drop everything from their old lives, focusing entirely on their man. They don’t see friends, they don’t go out, they don’t have fun unless their guy is around.

Don’t be that girl. That girl is going to find herself friendless, alone and lost as heck if she and her boyfriend do split up. It isn’t a good place to be.

Instead, be independent like Kristen. Of course she’d rather be hanging out with Rob, but a girl’s got to do what a girl’s got to do. You can’t let your life revolve around a guy.

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Thank You for this info and keep up the good work in this site. Cheers!

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I don’t like u go somewhere else WHAT

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YH it’s cool they spend time apart,they can’t be in each other arms every second of the day

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When BD filming ended, Rob went to Europe for the WFE publicity tour by himself. Then he went to work on Cosmopolis where he was alone for 7 weeks. He’s been alone in LA now for 26 days for a total of 101 days he hasn’t spent with Kristen.

They’ve only been in the same city (LA, SD or Toronto) for 27 days since they ended their last Twilight movie. That’s a fact, the calendar doesn’t lie. And it doesn’t matter which one of them was working, they’re both adults and they choose to work rather than spend time with each other. Rob doesn’t appear to be working now, but until he gives an interview, no one knows for sure. Whatever, he hasn’t rushed to London to see her.

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shrink it

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MAN MORE LIKE PUBLITY MAKER AND EVER MORE LIKE IN THE CLOSET LESBIAN

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NOT HER MAN !!!!!

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ha ha she does look drunk one thing to remember whether she is liked or not, a star or not she is still 21 seems to remember that. so lay off she is human first, an actor second and much hated by a lot third.

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this is getting ridiculous if she goes out on her own its fine, if he does he doesnt care , if he only went out with her you would say hes posesive, can everyone just be sensible about this please,I wish, hope they’re not together most of the negative horrible gossip is about their relationship everyone guessing about, we dont know what their relationship is its not fair to spread nasty gossip when we dont know, what annoys me is how most of the articles seem to show kristen in a good way and not Rob

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Who said they were even together? And if they even are dating, they wouldn’t be joined at the hip, but it doesn’t mean they don’t like each other. I don’t even think Robert likes her, because, along with someone else said, if he did, he would be “partying” (*cough* getting trashed *cough cough*)in London with her. This sounds more like a FWB deal that has met its ending, not really a romantic relationship. Overall, HollywoodLife obviously hasn’t heard the song “Jumpin’ Jumpin’” by Destiny’s Child, though. Kristen and Robert don’t have to be joined at the hip EVERYWHERE.

Kristen looks a tad wasted in that picture….

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Sorry, Rob is a famewhore? How exactly? He doesn’t walk the red carpet at premieres for films except his own (you notice he’s never gone to a premiere of Kristen’s movies). He doesn’t go to the Met Gala like she does, he doesn’t go to the film festivals she does. He doesn’t call the paps when he goes to the gym.

She’s the one who’s desperate for attention and tries to get publicity. That’s what being a famewhore is. Rob flies under the radar as much as possible.

And she looks so drunk in that picture, you can tell because she’s smiling.

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WTF!!! Kristen rarely goes to party, Rob is always in party alone hanging out with friends and girls. Why you need to put Kristen when Rob is the biggest famewhore ever. I wish Kristen will see that but she is way in love with him to see that, while Rob doesn’t give a fvck about Kristen, she needs someone better

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What Hollywood Life is doing here is just provoking both, Robert Fans and Krisbians. And people are just more stupid replying.
Give it up, It’s their lives not us.

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KStew better get used to going out without Rob because he’s just not that into her. If he was, he’d be there instead of out partying in LA with his friends.

A man in love at 25 doesn’t avoid a girl for weeks at a time if he’s serious about her. He just doesn’t. If you’ve been in a relationship you’d know that. And he’s not working, he’s on vacation.

Looks like their friends with benefits deal is over. Don’t look for him in London anytime soon, cause it ain’t gonna happen.

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I really hope for some replying so negatively about Rob and Kristen’s relationship, you are all 13 year olds who have never experienced real love. Grown up love does not require being joined at the hip and can survive periods of separation if both parties are committed to each other. Rob and Kristen have endured long distances and periods apart in the past and have come out of it as strong as ever. One only has to look at their reunions to see how much they care for and love one another. They are incapable of hiding their feelings with their loving gazes and intimate body language.

Please, leave them be!

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Sorry, but the only real time they’ve ever spent together has been when they were trapped on a location for a Twilight movie. They spent the summer apart when he filming RM in NY, they spent the winter apart when he filmed BA in Europe, they spent the spring apart when he filmed WFE, and he was alone in Toronto for 7 weeks this summer.

Now she’s gone to London and he’s hanging out in LA. Except for when they’re paid to be seen together at the MTV awards and ComicCon, they haven’t spent more than a few days together, ever. Do the math. He took a week to be on the road with his friends in a car when they drove down to visit the OTR set in Louisiana, and then after a couple of days he flew off again.

A day here, a day there is not a real relationship. it’s friends with benefits when it’s convenient. He said he adopted his dog because he was lonely. And that was when he was filming BD with her. Now he had free time and he’s choosing to stay in LA. And they’ve never said they were a couple, either.

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I think you are the only one who is making sense hear

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THAT’S WHY THEY R TOGETHER FOR MORE THAN 2 YEARS
THEIR UNDERSTANDING IS BEST
NO NEED TO STAY AT HOTEL KRIS OR ROB
THEY CAN HAVE FUN
THEY HAVE THEIR OWN LIFES TOOOOOOOO

[ DOING PARTIES DOESN'T MEAN SHE SLEPT WITH SOMEONE OR HE SLEPT WITH ANY GIRL ]
GET THE FACTS RIGHT HOLLYWOOD LIFE

ROBSTEN forever
this is what i like about these 2………….

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There is no Robsten, there never was. It’s a term made up by fans. They are 2 actors who made 5 movies together. The only real time they spent together was while they were filming. The rest of the time they go off and spend months apart.

That’s not the way a real couple acts. They aren’t Edward and Bella, they just play those parts. Get over it, their FWB time is over.

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Okay Ms. Delusional, if Rob’s not dating Kristen then who is he with? The only woman he’s ever seen with is Kristen. And don’t tell me Rob’s gay or he’s been celibate the past 2 years.

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Kristen is very smart, she has Robert because it gives you freedom ……. this relationship goes away!

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It’s cool if you spend more time together as a couple than hanging out without eachother.
I get when works gets in the way but some things just don’t add up and we all know how this story ends.
Since both wrapped The Twilight Saga they had been spending less and less time together and more and more time apart ..even when they had the resources and time to see each other.
I just wish that when the break up is “official” the media doesn’t attack Kristen, like I suspect they’ll do.
The only positive thing out of this is that his fans are going to be really happy and can focus on targeting his new girl.

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