If A Guy Goes Out Of His Way To See You Like Justin Bieber Did Selena Gomez, Is It Love Or Is He Scary Obsessed?

Fri, July 29, 2011 11:30am EDT by 11 Comments

The Biebster couldn’t bear to be away from his lady for even a week! Is this true love?

Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez seem have been joined at the hip lately, and it’s a rare thing to see one without the other. So it was surprising to think that the 17-year-old star would miss the first night of his girlfriend’s tour. He didn’t, of course. JB was present and accounted for when he flew to Boca Raton, Flor. yesterday. But is Justin’s desire to be by Selena’s side love or obsession? The Biebster actually tweeted that he was in Canada in order to surprise his girl, so that she wouldn’t suspect he was flying to see her. However, several fans spotted the two out and about looking lovey dovey in the south of Florida, where the 19-year-old starlet kicked off her We Own the Night tour at the Mizner Park Amphitheater.

But such dedication might be misconstrued as as an infatuation. Is that how Justin Bieber feels — and if a guy is traveling far out of his way to see you, is what he feels real?

Obsession and love is a fine line, but I always differentiate it this way: love, for the most part, makes you feel happy. Being around the other person betters you. Infatuation or obsession, on the other hand, makes you feel anxious. You crave the other person, but don’t understand why. Their looks or their body or your sexual relationship is more of a motivation than who your boyfriend/girlfriend actually is.

Certain actions can be construed as obsessive, but I don’t believe Justin flying to see his girl on her big night is one of them. It’s sweet, not scary.

Just make sure your guy isn’t putting you on a pedestal. If he does, and sees you in a bright, shining light with a halo over your head, he’s not in love with the real you, but the idea of you — and you might want to nip that particular relationship in the bud.

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Julia

Posted at 2:26 AM on July 30, 2011  

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dfbkdg

Posted at 11:26 PM on July 29, 2011  

Its not ‘love’ and its not ‘scary obsessed’ its called publicity :). Its pretty obvious…i cant believe none of u at HL have noticed it yet!

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Penelope

Posted at 2:24 PM on July 29, 2011  

Wow, this site is so biased. You all are getting kind of ridiculous with all your double standards.

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gess

Posted at 2:06 PM on July 29, 2011  

i a so tired of hearing that jb and selenas relationship is just publicity .jb is filthy rich he could have any girl he wants. everywhere he goes the cameras follow him .so he doesnot need to be with selena to get publicity .UNDERSTAND !!!!!

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rediculous

Posted at 1:23 PM on July 29, 2011  

this is soo retarded and unfair if miley was to wear that people would be saying it’s racy or to revealing and all that crap sayin she’s a slut but with selena she’s sexy and cute yall are retarded

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annoying

Posted at 12:54 PM on July 29, 2011  

So Miley basically fully clothed at the starkey hearing foundation is racy. But Selena barely covering anything is sexy? Gosh you guys are such hypocritical idiots.

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elien

Posted at 12:35 PM on July 29, 2011  

this is just love they are in love and can’t be separete for a long time and even not for a week but so what this is love!!

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Wow

Posted at 12:30 PM on July 29, 2011  

It’s neither love or obsession…it’s publicity

At least now they’re trying to be A BIT more subtle bout it

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WTH !!

Posted at 11:53 AM on July 29, 2011  

Ok Soo …. If Selena dresses like this is is SEXY but if Miley dresses like this she’s called a SLUT and a BAD INFLUENCE Wooww pure favoritism and Envy

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lea

Posted at 12:19 PM on July 29, 2011  

if now miley dressed like that i don’t think people gonna call her a slut anymore.When she dressed like that she was 16 selena is 19, i love both ,but everybody need to stop comparing miley and selena all the time

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de

Posted at 12:28 PM on July 29, 2011  

omg i so agree with you whenever miley dresses like this they call her slut

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