Does your relationship necessarily have to make you a good person?
Justin Bieber is saying really sweet things about girlfriend Selena Gomez behind her back. The 17-year-old singer recently confided that she makes him a better person. Aw! Should your relationship be the same?
“She’s a really good person,” Justin told Entertainment Tonight. “She brings out the best in me.”
This is actually the sign of a really strong, healthy relationship. You want your respective other to complement you and bring out the best in you (to ‘complete you’, if we’re going all Jerry Maguire here).
When you love and respect someone, you’re going to turn into the best version of you. He’s going to balance you and add to who you are as a person, and that’s a wonderful thing.
On the other hand, your partner doesn’t always necessarily need to make you a better person. You don’t have to turn into Mother Teresa just because you’re in love.
So don’t go feeling like you need to be a saint, and that if you haven’t, your romance is doomed. That’s not the case. But if he doesn’t at least make you happy, then I would reassess how much you really need this particular guy in your life.
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1jettsetters
Posted at 1:12 AM on August 4, 2011
Pwease thy ain gnna sty tgther ima real jb fan n I luv him no matter why but selenas changn him n we jus wnt the old Justin bck like wen he coulda flip his hair<3 wen he wld spend mo time with he's fans<3 n I jus wnt the old Justin bck actually every1'does no1 lkes thz new Justin Selena needs to go #downwithselena
TRUE
Posted at 4:47 PM on April 17, 2012
If your a true fan you won’t judge him you think he doesnt wish he true fans back??? The ones that wouldn’t judge him on every little thing he did
Rodrigo
Posted at 9:53 AM on July 21, 2011
I don’t think Selena Gomez
may want such a thing so early ..
she would not do this with their fans
! Marry Justin?
Never …
Laura Bieber
Posted at 4:02 PM on June 29, 2011
qosssh It Looks Like They Like Each other ijust want to knoe the truth are they qoen out causee ones he sayd in a maqazinq i bauqht 1 week aqo tht yuhs dont have anythinqq w’ each other then this happen kissinq and all tht iLove Justin Bieber Im one of his fans But iWant the old justin back iknoee no one stays the same!& im alwasy going to be a fan of his but if selena is in the way im quessinq ihave to deal with her uqqqh!
sELENAoSOEIO
Posted at 11:13 AM on June 29, 2011
This is ridiculous. I know how obnoxiously rude and (excuse my language) bitchy, but she does NOT make him a better person. Justin has been acting out A LOT since the two got back together. For example, on Justin’s birthday, Selena got hurt, and Justin allegedly flips of the paparazzi.
And another occasion, there is a picture of the two in a car. Selena is ecstatic and waving to the camera. Justin has a… devlish, as much as I hate to say it, smile, sure enough, flipping of the camera.
Selena fan
Posted at 10:53 PM on July 3, 2011
Papparazzi did not hurt her she had a cold sore tlk wat u kno………..;););););):) selena fan always and Justin they are cute together in I hope they stay together
ReemBieberfan1
Posted at 9:28 PM on June 28, 2011
They soo cute together i wish justin stay this happy for a long time :) cuz if justin is happy every fan of justin are happy … and selena don’t break his heart .. I’m really a big fan of justin Bieber and i’m really happy for him .. But i have to say most fans miss the old justin . well I’m a really big fan and no matter how justin change i would still be his # one fan and always :)
Hmm
Posted at 12:55 PM on June 27, 2011
Every time I see this picture of him I want to type him down and force feed him some sandwiches
IB Lessey
Posted at 2:22 AM on January 16, 2012
EVIL hope this aint illuminati relationship