If Huma wasn’t pregnant, I’d say dump the lying dirty-sexting jerk — but now there’s a third party involved. If Weiner will commit to couples therapy, they should give their marriage a chance!
I’m having a major advice reversal on the Anthony Weiner/Huma Abedin marriage, since the shocking revelation the poor beleaguered woman is three months pregnant with the couple’s child. My heart goes out to Huma, who has been committed to her marriage and has even started a family with this man. Just when she needs her husband the most, he betrays her emotionally by sexting with other women…while she is pregnant!
Now we can more fully understand her decision to at least initially stick with her horny, humiliating husband; she is trying to figure out what is in the best interest of their innocent baby.
After speaking to experts, I now recommend Huma give her marriage a chance for a couple of reasons:
“First of all, her hormones are off the wall due to the pregnancy right now. She isn’t going to be seeing things as clearly as she should,” says psychotherapist, Dr. Gilda Carle of DrGilda.com and author of How to WIN When Your Mate Cheats.
In other words, she needs to take some time to sort our her feelings.
Dr. Carle explains, “It’s a far more serious situation because there’s another person involved.”
Secondly, IF — and this is a big IF — her husband commits wholeheartedly to excellent couples counseling, they could have a much better marriage (even better than they’ve ever had) say the experts.
“I’ve seen marriages in far more dire straits that have been saved IF each person in the couple wants to save it AND they get excellent counseling,” says Cooper Lawrence, relationship expert for The Scott & Todd Show.
65% of couples in a cheating relationship stay together, points out Dr. Carle.
But “if he doesn’t think he needs therapy, she’s in big trouble,” adds Lawrence. “She shouldn’t waste any more time.”
Therapy is next!
The problem is, Weiner said in his press conference June 7 he hasn’t sought professional help. “This isn’t something that can be treated awat,” he said.
WRONG! It has to be treated!
This is so unfair and sad for Huma. She’s expecting her first child. It’s an exciting time — it should be the happiest time of her life. “I’m sure she dreamt of raising a baby with a mommy and daddy,” says Dr. Carle.
Exactly! So, Anthony Weiner, if you love your wife, despite your disgusting behavior and betrayal, commit to therapy with the best possible marriage therapist and pray your wife will work with you for as long as it takes for you to heal yourself and your relationship!
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