Bonnie Says: Anthony Weiner's Wife, Huma Abedin, You Must Demand That He Goes Into Therapy Fast Or Your Marriage Can't Be Saved!

Mon, June 6, 2011 6:28pm EDT by 12 Comments

Your husband, Andrew Weiner , took responsibility for his sexually “inappropriate” relationships with six young women today, but he STILL wouldn’t commit to getting psychological help! That’s nuts!

Huma- I need to point out to you that while your New York Congressman husband confessed that he has a “weakness,” and that his twitpic-ing photos of his erection was “a destructive thing to do,” he still thinks that he can control himself, from now on. Don’t you think that’s more than a little unrealistic?

If he couldn’t control himself for the past three years even after he married wonderful you, last July, then why does he think he can suddenly beat his demons on his own now? And Huma, why would you even trust him after learning what he has kept hidden from you all this time?

Huma — your man has a serious feeling of inadequacy, according to psychotherapist, Dr. Gilda Carle, of Dr.Gilda.com. “This doesn’t have anything to do with sex, it was about getting a sense of power,” she explains. “Talking, Facebooking and tweeting with young, pretty women made him feel like a big shot.”

Anthony Weiner‘s real problem was that he felt inadequate inside — like the skinny, gawky, nerdy guy he once was , says Dr. Carle. “Then he got into a position of political power, and suddenly women were flocking all over him, but he still felt inadequate. Communicating with these other women though would give him a feeling of power, that boosted his self-esteem.”

And then Huma, he got addicted to this high he was getting from flirting with the kind of women – young and pretty - that he never thought would pay any attention to him before he was a bigwig.

YOU- you have to get him to actually dig into why he feels so negatively about himself or he will never overcome his addiction. And if he can’t quit his urge to  show off his genitals to strange women, then he can never have a truly loving relationship with YOU.

Your husband said in his press conference today, June 6, that he loves you and didn’t want to hurt you. But it isn’t a loving thing to exhibit his body parts to other women. It’s not loving, committed or respectful!

I’m sure you are shocked about this. Your husband has been living a double life. You are no doubt wondering if the man you thought you loved, even exists.

Well, you won’t find out until he finds out who he really is and understands why he was addicted to emotionally cheating on you to get a high.

So give him an ultimatum — if he loves you, he’ll get into therapy on his own, AND with you! You BOTH need it!

Good luck!

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Margot

Posted at 6:28 PM on June 11, 2011  

I never respond to these things because I find them a complete waste of time normally, but enough is enough. Leave Huma alone. Her husband has made atrocious mistakes and now the whole world knows about every humiliating detail. I can’t even imagine and it makes me so angry that the media is always willing to drag these guys’ partners/wives/girlfriends into the messes they have created. These women are not at fault and although this column isn’t blaming Huma it is still addressing her and telling her what she NEEDS to do. She doesn’t need to do anything. “You Must Demand that He Goes Into Therapy Fast Or Your Marriage Can’t Be Saved!” It is not the public’s business whether or not their marriage is “saved” and it is certainly not the public’s business how Huma is dealing with all of this. Her husband is the one at fault. If anything, it would have been more interesting to read a column about reasons why politicians these days all seem to be slimeballs. That’s something I want to know. Where’s the respect? Respect the woman and leave her and her family alone. She’s beautiful and successful in her own right and doesn’t need strangers weighing in on her private life.

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Daniel Asamota

Posted at 3:10 AM on June 8, 2011  

This whole thing is nothing more than a right-wing conspiracy to discredit a rival and try an use it as leverage to make him step-down from his seat! Weiner, stand firm! We all see how well the right-wing dorkos hide the dirty laundry of their party members (Arnold Schwartzenegger hello!)though some can’t be hidden (ditz#1 Sara Palin!) But this making a big deal out of this man’s personal life and trying to cast aspersion about his ability to do his job is getting old! You right-wing potheads need to get a f@#$!n life and leave other people’s alone!

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SFBayAreaGirl

Posted at 2:06 AM on June 8, 2011  

ugh, just dump him and get it over with! Eff therapy… move on, there are plenty of other actual real and good men out there. Why waste your time w/anther Tiger or Sheen… narcissictic and/or insanely insecure men who aren’t even attractive? I mean, really… ask yourself this: Would you (or Sheen’s or Woods’ wives) married any of these less than attractive men if they didn’t have fame, power and fortune?

My advice: MOVE ON, NOW! You will find true love. Plenty more guys out there who would cherish a beautiful and smart woman like you.

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Anna

Posted at 1:21 AM on June 8, 2011  

Why do you think that an educated, well-mannered and discrete Muslim woman would remain married after such public humiliation? She has nothing to lose: she already had her own career before meeting him. There will be no “I stand by my man” blah blah blah after this: she’ll get a divorce and move on with her life.

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Mina

Posted at 11:29 PM on June 7, 2011  

She’s so beautiful, and he looks like an old, gangly ghoul. She should have married someone who respected the institution of marriage, and was not so egotistical. Never marry a politician, unless he’s Barack Obama. President Obama is the only one who shows respect to his wife and family, and to the institution of marriage.

I can’t believe so many crazy people don’t want homosexuals to marry, but they let politicians marry when all they do is disrespect their families? Madness.

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cat

Posted at 6:21 PM on June 7, 2011  

Why would this beautiful, well-educated woman with a good job even consider staying with this man. She doesn’t need him. My mother used to say “Men are like buses, another one will be by in a few minutes.”
Huma, make us all proud. Leave, run quickly and don’t look back.

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Mina

Posted at 11:32 PM on June 7, 2011  

I want her to leave him, too. But, of course, it has to be her decision. I think she needs time to process this. I think eventually, she will leave him. It will take a little while. Right now, everyone is in such a frenzy and she must still be in shock. I hope she lets him have it. He’s nothing but scum.

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tera

Posted at 2:44 AM on June 7, 2011  

it’s so annoying cause he’s actually a good politican, and his marriage to a muslim women while he’s jewish himself was very inspiring. And to find out he’s doing lame crap on the side just really undermines everything he’s accomplished and stood for. Very disappointing and stupid.

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mike

Posted at 9:56 AM on June 7, 2011  

Yeah – right – a good politician. Look at his behavior – nothing more needs to be said.

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lola

Posted at 2:42 AM on June 7, 2011  

his wife is a smart cookie, I’m sure she’ll tell him what’s up. She’s back at work with hillary clinton and looks sharp and focused. He on the other hand though is an idiot for what he did, and he’s an idiot if he doesn’t seek therapy for it, he’s acting out like a fourteen year old boy with her first facebook account, loser.

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mike

Posted at 9:57 AM on June 7, 2011  

i agree with your comments but look at his behavior – do you really think this guy is actually going to make an effort to get the therapy he needs?

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VanoJ

Posted at 2:16 AM on June 7, 2011  

God. The vultures descend.

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