Selena Gomez Is Over Being Hated For Dating Justin Bieber: 'It Gets To Me Sometimes!'

Tue, May 31, 2011 12:13pm EDT by 40 Comments

Up until now, Selena Gomez has been understanding about Justin Bieber’s fans animosity toward her — but the negativity is starting to get to her and hurts her feelings!

Even though she’s one of the most envied girls in the world because she’s dating Justin Bieber, Selena Gomez has handled her boyfriend’s hating fans with grace, saying she understands what it’s like to have a crush on a celebrity and feel protective over them. However, the haters are starting to get to the 18-year-old starlet and she says she’s fed up.

“The negativity is very uncomfortable,” Selena told Bliss magazine. “I mean, like, everybody goes through it if they’re in high school. Someone might bully you or say mean things — it’s just a part of growing up — but when the whole world has an opinion on you and says things when they don’t even know you, it’s harsh. It gets to me sometimes.”

Even though the threats, hate stares and criticism bug her, Selena tries to take the high road.

“Ultimately, if you fight back, they’re winning. I know it’s hard, but let it slide and it’ll eventually go away,” she explained.

She added, “Although I can read a thousand wonderful comments, one bad comment will throw me. If I’m honest, I can be too sensitive sometimes, but I try not to focus on it. Paparazzi intrusion is constant and that part is not really normal, so whenever there is a situation like that, where I don’t feel normal or comfortable, it’s very awkward for me and most of the time you’ll see me not looking very happy! But you just have to learn to get on with it.”

We think Justin, 17, and Selena make an adorable couple, but can totally understand how their PDA and intense love for each other could make Beliebers hurt inside. Nevertheless, that’s no excuse to send death threats!

Kirstin Benson

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Posted at 3:21 PM on June 10, 2011  

Selena’s parents came to the US illegally from Mexico, that’s why they hated Selena. Maybe there are racist fans in this site. Third generation Mexican/Hispanics are taking over the workplace and the entertainment industry!

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mEe

Posted at 3:45 PM on June 9, 2011  

I think sum of uUu guys are really over doing it! Seriosely if uUu guys are really true beliebers then maybe uUu should stop sending her deat threats and hating her! Coz by doing that uUu’ll gonna scare her nd shez gonna break up with him! Nd he seems to really really really really like her! Nd if they break up his gonna be very miserable nd might not give uUu want uUu want! I really like J.B toO!!! I mean I have like 500 pics of him EXcluding my posters! I’m kinda jelouse toO! I wish I were her! So leave yer alone, not for her! But for J.B!!! Cum’n guys its really getting unreasonable! Do iT fOr JUSTIN BIEBER!!!! Not eny1 else!!!

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Maya

Posted at 9:47 PM on June 8, 2011  

Seriously ALL sel haters need to stop! There aloud to date who ever they want. If u were a real fan u would just want Justin to be happy he’s aloud to have a girlfriend he is a normal 17 year old boy! I don’t think Selly or Justin appriciate all the hate! I mean you guys r just jealous. you guys act like you own him well u don’t so it’s his life he gets to choose what he does! And if he likes Selena then he does GET OVER IT!!!!! yeah their dating so what’s the big deal? All of you call Selena names and for what reason cuz she has a bf like a normal person!!! Imagine if u were the one datin Justin and all these little girls that don’t even no u hated u! Omfg! Selena don’t let the hate get to you!!! Most of u say ur gonna hit or kill selena SYYYKE you WONT TOUCH her! Plzz that is a straight up lie! Just remember JEALOUSY IS THE UGLYEST TRAIT!!! Iselena and justin!!!! So stfu who gives a crap if they dating just cuz u don’t like it doesn’t mean justin’s gonna stop dating her! jelena

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desirae bieber

Posted at 8:35 PM on June 8, 2011  

i mean seriously i used to like her but she crossed the line

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Jenna

Posted at 7:05 PM on June 8, 2011  

Ok, so i like justin and i like selena, but i do not like them together. And its not that I’m convinced we will get married one day. I just think there wrong together! They’re just…too much. Meeting each others parents? Missing jazmines bday? Going on vacation? At only five monthes? And we all know what they were doing on that vacation. Its too much. They’re too physical. And i love selena, but she does jump from guy to guy. Js

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selena defender

Posted at 2:09 PM on June 5, 2011  

To alll selena haterz BACKOFF shes doing anything wrong shes just enjoying HER boyriend NOT yours so BACKOFF

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jb is awesome selena gomez is not

Posted at 11:58 AM on June 5, 2011  

shut up cra cra and by the way ur name crap crap because justin bieber is awesome and selena gomez is not (my name for tht reason) so shut up back

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nikie

Posted at 12:30 PM on July 2, 2011  

i agree with cra cra (just saying)

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cra cra

Posted at 3:19 AM on June 5, 2011  

Seriously… Justin Bieber fans shut up, 10 times out of 10 you will not have any chance with this guy so move on to reality and stay out of fantasy. GO GET HELP PLEASE !!!oo and I Love Selena Gomez.

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unknown

Posted at 2:51 AM on June 5, 2011  

SELENA GOMEZ YOUR SUCH A SLUT!!!!!!!!!!! JUSTIN PLEASE OPEN YOUR EYESS!!!!!!!!!! I MEAN JUSTIN MISSING HIS 3 YEAR OLD SISTERS BIRTHDAY SERIOUSLY… JUSTIN PLEASEE!!!

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toskoolforcool

Posted at 12:38 PM on June 6, 2011  

wow u justin bieber fans make me laugh its just a guy hes probably not even half your age

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i still like him

Posted at 12:27 PM on July 2, 2011  

true im not his age but i still stand up for him

 
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nikie

Posted at 12:24 PM on July 2, 2011  

leave her alone shes not a slut shes having fun and they like each other so leave thm alone

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Ms.bieber

Posted at 7:35 PM on June 4, 2011  

hi justin bieber and selena gomez i love u guys i want to see u guys in coster

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belieber

Posted at 6:25 PM on June 4, 2011  

This whole ROMANCE thing between them is totally fake. She wasnt even that famous. She was only known for her part in Wizards of Waverly Place. That was it, in the Celebrity world know knew her. She has jumped from guy to guy. First she was with Nick Jonas, then she went for Taylor Launter, and then the lead singer of the band “Forever the Sickest Kids. She always bounces from guy to guy. It wont be long till she leaves Justin. On my opinion i think she is using him for his FAME!!! Beacause of Justin, he made her more known to this world then she ever was. Honestly this is a FAKE ROMANCE, and it wont be lasting much longer. She is a HYPOCRITE, cause she first starts of saying” No, He’s like my little BROTHER!THen shes all making out with him…….

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Marie

Posted at 5:48 PM on June 3, 2011  

I find it funny how so many think that they OWN Justin Bieber and it is a unhealthy obsession. I want to know where the parents are at when their 12 year old kid is sending death threats to Selena or any Celebrity for that matter?. Those that are hating on Selena, you don’t know her and you do not know Justin. You only know him through his music and interviews. Fans are just that Fans and that’s all you will be. You’re crossing the line when that obsession turns into hatred where you feel the need to be sending death threats to someone you don’t even know. Justin is a human being and will be dating girls. He won’t be single forever!. Show some respect!.

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Jelieber

Posted at 5:22 PM on June 2, 2011  

As seen in my name, I support Jelena. I don’t see why people hate. I know that knowing a celebrity you deeply love and care about is with another celebrity and it hurts, but that doesn’t give you the right to be so rude to her. She isn’t using him for fame because she has her own. She hasn’t dated a lot of celebrity’s, she’s only dated Nick Jonas, Taylor Lautner, & Justin Bieber.(still dating justin) Other celeb’s date WAY MORE than her. Give her and him a break. Give JELENA a break. Their 17 & 18 & in love. Let them be.

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Clairice

Posted at 3:07 PM on June 2, 2011  

This whole ROMANCE thing between them is totally fake. She wasnt even that famous. She was only known for her part in Wizards of Waverly Place. That was it, in the Celebrity world know knew her. She has jumped from guy to guy. First she was with Nick Jonas, then she went for Taylor Launter, and then the lead singer of the band “Forever the Sickest Kids. She always bounces from guy to guy. It wont be long till she leaves Justin. On my opinion i think she is using him for his FAME!!! Beacause of Justin, he made her more known to this world then she ever was. Honestly this is a FAKE ROMANCE, and it wont be lasting much longer. She is a HYPOCRITE, cause she first starts of saying” No, He’s like my little BROTHER!”, and then now she has her arm on his LEG at the Billboard Awards. If he’s like your little brother, you wouldn’t be touching him that way, you PERVERT!!!!!!! She also says that she against “Animal Cruelty”, then this chick goes off AND PAINTS HORSES PINK!! thats animal cruelty right. she should JUST STICK TO SINGING AND LEAVE BOYS WHO ARE YOUNGER THAN HER ALONE!!!!! JAIL BAIT!!!!! AND STICK TO ACTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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katelynn

Posted at 4:20 PM on June 3, 2011  

if she wasnt tht famous why do yhu noe she had a part in WIZARDS OF WAVERLY PLACE i mean since yhu said she wasnt tht famous

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caity

Posted at 9:36 PM on June 1, 2011  

IF YHU REALLY LOVE JUSTIN THE WAY YHU SAY THEN YHU WOULDNT HURT SELENA CUZ HE MIGHT NOT BE THE SAME PERSON HE IS IF SELENA BROKE UP WITH HIM CUZ IT LOOKS LIKE HE IS MADLY IN LOVE WITH HER. TRUE BELIEBERS WOULD NOT DO THAT THEY WOULD SUPPORT JUSTIN AND LOVE HIM

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Mrs.Bieber

Posted at 5:15 PM on June 1, 2011  

ITS A GOOD THING SHE BROKE UP WITH HIM!!! SHE ONLY USED HIM TO LEARN HOW TO SING BETTER AND THATS NOT RIGHT! THEN SHE LEARNED HOW TO SING BETTER AND BROKE UP WITH HIM!! I WANNA MEET JUSTIN BIEBER SOMEDAY AND SHOW HIM HOW A REAL GF IS! EMAIL ME JUSTIN CAUSE IM A HUGE FAN AND WANT TO MEET YOU!! IM ACTUALLY THE NUMBER 1 FAN IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD YOU WILL KNOW WHAT I MEAN WHEN YOU MEET ME(: <3

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bryanni

Posted at 6:58 PM on June 1, 2011  

mrs.bieber selena did not break uu with justin if she did i would be the frist one to know becaues mybff momwork for justin so post what u know ok

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me

Posted at 6:00 AM on June 1, 2011  

you know if your bieber fans you shouldn’t hurt selena if u really love him be happy for him wat if she breaks his heart because of this your not doing him a favor

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M

Posted at 7:22 PM on May 31, 2011  

For crying out loud !!
Leave the poor girl alone!

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Julie

Posted at 6:51 PM on May 31, 2011  

hahahahahahahaha.. uhh im nobodys fan here but i think its hilarous that she can sit there and be pathetic like all of the other disney channel stars are. Uhh sorry Selena but just get over with it. You have bodygaurds right? Well there you go

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violet

Posted at 3:33 AM on June 11, 2011  

hey, am not a fan of neither, but i find it riduclues how selena is pathecic enough to say all hating comments r getting to her! I mean, seoirosly, she has body guards!

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Selena&JustinFan

Posted at 6:24 PM on May 31, 2011  

Dear Selena,
You are the most awsome person i know! You shouldnt let all those threats and hate notes get to you! You are a very strong person and i know it! And every time you think that all the hate notes and threates are getting to u, just remember that Justin loves you more than his fans!! Stay strong!

Sincerely,
A Huge Fan of Selena and Justin

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milesnezgi

Posted at 4:23 PM on May 31, 2011  

i dont think that they are really a good couple cuz maybe there are 2 years between them but selena looks like justin’s elder sister and she is using jb for be in the news everytime so they look funny(in my opinion) im not a jb fan but she is not an appropriate person for him :(

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nikki renee'

Posted at 3:51 PM on May 31, 2011  

i think that they are cute together . and this hater stuff is getting stupid. if they are fans they would be happy for him and support him .

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a fan

Posted at 2:11 PM on May 31, 2011  

i love selena gomez very much she is my idol i wish for her a happy life full of happiness .JELENA forever i love u guys (selena and justin )togather….best luck

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DivaQueen

Posted at 1:04 PM on May 31, 2011  

If “the negativity is starting to get to her”, then she can’t be “over it”. The two statements are opposites. So unless it’s opposites day, you fools need to crack a dictionary and thesaurus or maybe go back and get your GED. Jeez.

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@SafeBenD

Posted at 12:33 PM on May 31, 2011  

She’s all nince wise!! ‘Make a cute couple with the biebs #SupportJelena !

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