Is true love about passion — or comfort?
How did Kim Kardashian know she had found ‘the one’ in fiancé Kris Humphries? According to Kim’s older sis, Kourtney, it was because she felt ‘comfortable’ around him. Does this kind of feeling guarantee that your love will last, or should you hold out for someone you feel crazy passionate about?
“He fits in [with the family] already. I think they’re just themselves, and I think that’s the most important thing,” the oldest Kardashian sister told People magazine. She added, “Kim is totally herself in front of him. Everything is easy, comfortable, no stress.”
Is Kim going the right route, or should she be seeking someone with whom sparks fly?
I may never say this again in my life but here it is: DO be like Kim Kardashian. This girl has the right idea. Why do you want to be with a guy who makes you feel on edge, or makes you feel that you always have to be something you’re not? Being comfortable might not sound all that sexy, but it’s a wonderful thing in a relationship.
This is why so many women have fantasies about marrying their best guy friend: you can be attracted to the guy you feel most yourself around.
Does this mean he’s ‘the one’? Well, no. But any relationship where you can’t be you almost certainly guarantees that he won’t be your true love. So at least you’re taking a step in the right direction!