Should New Couples Go Away Together As Justin Bieber & Selena Gomez Have Done?

Tue, May 24, 2011 12:11pm EDT by 6 Comments
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How soon is too soon to take a vacation with your new man?

In the grand scheme of things, Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber haven’t been dating all that long. However, although they’ve been a couple for under six months, the toothy twosome is now on vacation together. How soon is too soon to be taking trips with a new man?

Both young stars have been exhausting themselves — he with an international tour and she trying to kick-star a musical career — and so are taking alone time…together. “After working their asses off, they’ve carved out some serious time to hang out. They’re taking a well-deserved break together,” a source close to the couple tells E! Online.

Although I agree that everyone deserves a vacation, I can’t even touch on the fact that they’re being allowed to do so when he, at 17, is still underage and she’s barely legal at 18. But I digress. If these two were actually consenting adults, should they be taking a vacation together so quickly?

I think the three-month mark is always a good time to plan a trip with your man, providing you’re seeing him more than two times a week leading up to that point. You’re in the middle of the honeymoon stage, all loved up and ready to focus on one another without the distractions of the outside world.

Taking a trip with your guy during early days is OK if you’re trying to figure out whether or not you really like him (vacations can totally kill a relationship if you’re not compatible travelers) but should be, for the most part, avoided at all costs. After all, if you haven’t been dating for very long, then the holiday turns your romance into something of fantasy, instead of the fantastic reality it should be.

A premature holiday is like playing house: fun while it’s happening, but when the game is over, you may just want to ditch your fake husband and walk away.

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jacob

Posted at 3:41 PM on August 19, 2011  

Selena is to good for justin i dnt think they should be together but its selenas life and i respect tht cause im a huge fan of selena LUV U SELENA

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codie

Posted at 10:39 PM on May 24, 2011  

they should not be together

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suzette

Posted at 1:03 PM on May 24, 2011  

I don’t think it’s anyone’s business. Teens are taking vacations with their bf/gf’s all the time. Plus pics have shown Scooter Braun with them. I’m sure his mom is somewhere around.

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Jane

Posted at 12:49 PM on May 24, 2011  

Justin is such a skinny, little boy. Slena needs Taylor Lautner back…more of a man. I just never did like to see girls bigger than their boyfriends.

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Mimi

Posted at 12:56 PM on June 27, 2011  

Yeees ! So think I. It looks so weird. I always thought Selena would take someone more like a man. Justin just started to grow ! :D

Sure, the most say..that doesn’t matter. But what if Justin is in a situation, where he has to protect her !?
I don’t even wanna know that :/ ..baad.

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camilla mallette

Posted at 12:46 PM on May 24, 2011  

THEY ARE WITH THEIR OWN FAMILIES!!!!!!!!! OH MY GOSH!!

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