Bonnie Says: Taylor Swift Is So Smart To Say She Won't Date Another Guy With 'Privacy Issues!'

Wed, May 11, 2011 11:59pm EST by 24 Comments

‘Who cares about the paparazzi, I’m thrilled with my life!’ That’s Taylor’s attitude and what a fantastic attitude it is from such a big star!

The incredibly mature 21 year-old told Ellen DeGeneres on her show on May 11: “I think it’s just so obnoxious if I complain about anything… I hear people talk about like, ‘Oh, the intrusions on my privacy.’ It’s like there are a million other jobs you could have had. And for me, I’ve just come to an acceptance of the fact that this is my life, and if somebody wants to hide a relationship or has privacy issues, then we don’t have the same view point. Cause for me, it’s just like, live your life. If people happen to take pictures, you laugh about it in the car afterward.”

Wow! Is that a non- Hollywood response to having a public life or what? It’s impressive.

Taylor, you said this in response to Ellen empathizing that it must be so hard to have relationships and heartbreak in “public.” But instead of agreeing, you just shrugged and rolled your eyes while you made it clear that you have NO reason to be pitied. That you appreciate the blessings that your talent and fame brings and that you love your fans.

Ellen then pointed out that “you have to be with somebody on the same page,” and you agreed.

“I think it’s about what your idea of normalcy is. For me it’s living my life and going to the same coffee shops I did four years ago. It’s about living my life and having my career and not getting too consumed with either one. It’s about balance!”

Well said Taylor. That’s such a healthy attitude. Why should you stop living your life the way you want to, just because you’re a star.

But is this one of the reasons you split from Jake Gyllenhaal, who rented out a whole movie theatre in Nashville, so you two could see Tangled together…in privacy?

Jake isn’t exactly historically paparazzi-friendly. But you did take him to your favorite Nashville coffee spots so you could hang out just like ‘normal folks’. Was that too tough for him?

Maybe it’s because you’re so refreshingly down-to-earth that you were so concerned about victims of the Alabama tornados. “We had some very scary days in Nashville- dancers and band members were getting texts and photos of cyclones in their backyards- some of them were from Alabama,” you told Ellen.

So you decided to find out if you could just open up the rehearsals in Nashville for your concert tour and sell tickets to the public to raise money for the victims. “It turned out that we actually can,” you revealed. So that’s what your going to do!”

Taylor- I’m triply impressed. You actually APPRECIATE your stardom and what it allows you to do. You don’t give a hoot that your photo is taken and that fans find out about your life AND you do care enough about “ordinary” non-celebrities to raise money for tornado victims!

Taylor- I am now officially your #1 fan!


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–Bonnie Fuller

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Posted at 8:38 AM on June 26, 2012  

Love you Taylor. Bonnies right Taylor is so awesome. No one should Care about what others think. Be yourself and live your life to the fullest and live your life! Don’t be so protective.
As long as you knw that yu didn’t do anything wrong, it’s fine.

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Posted at 6:45 AM on May 14, 2011  

agreed with taylor! she’s rock! she’s living her live beautifully and smartly. about a guy, she’s no need to worry about coz she will find the right one someday! whatever it is you rock tay! everything about you is amazing to me! love ya!

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Posted at 2:25 PM on May 13, 2011  

She is right in singing about guys who wreck her life! Jonas deserved it and Kanye West and Jake Gyllenhal deserve it…………….

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Posted at 3:31 PM on May 12, 2011  

Hey what’s the deal??? There IS a difference between dating and actually sleeping with someone. Taylor is a sweetie and they don’t need to chase her because she’s not partying it up and ready to be caught acting like an idiot. So there’s no hunting factor for the paparazzi. Mags pretty much offer bounty for specifics pics like wanted posters in the old west.

I think it should be illegal for paps to take pics of children. What she’s trying to say is that’s part of the job having you’re photo taken and people being interested in you. Of course there are times when they cross the line.

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Posted at 3:19 PM on May 12, 2011  

Maybe the reason Taylor says that is because no one is following her they way they follow Rob and Kristen, Angie and Brad, Janet Jackson, George Cloonery, even though for all the wrong reasons, Lindsay Lohan, etc. Nobody is taking a zoom lens from hundreds of yards away and taking pictures of her through a window in her bathroom. Some celebrties can’t go to a restaurant, can’t take their kids to school, can’t do any of the normal things because photogs are are on them like fleas on a dog. There are certain curiosities that peopel will have about stars in music and film and we have the right to their time and attention when it comes to their work. But no famous person has an obligation to tell anybody what size underwear they wear or what kind of toile paper they buy. There are boundaries that no one has the right to cross and if Taylor thinks that being a public figure makes all aspects of anyone’s life fair game there is something seriously wrong with her.

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Posted at 8:19 PM on May 12, 2011  

i totally agree with you. i hate when people say ‘ they are actors, it comes with the job’ it so doesn’t come with the job, they have the right to privacy. i think they should be follow for their ACTING! not for who they are freaking sleeping with.

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Posted at 3:02 PM on May 13, 2011  

I know that it is wrong for people to be exposed but when you chose to be a actor or a singer you should know that this could happen and your making that choice. Even though it wrong it happens and in someway you chose it. I agree with Taylor 100% and i think she got it right live your life the way u want and if people see it then they do.

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Posted at 7:40 PM on May 23, 2011  

They don’t have to look for her because she lets the know about so they will be there..then reports that it was a “close source” who revealed it ! LOL!! If Jake hadn’t been with her in those coffee shops etc. then no pics would have been taken because unles your 12 your don’t care where she is when she is not on the stage!

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Posted at 1:27 PM on May 12, 2011  

Then she won’t date anymore! what a boring girl she must be, every guys she dated ran far away from her!

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Puisse Reid

Posted at 6:38 AM on May 12, 2011  

Typeface looks interested.

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Posted at 3:56 AM on May 12, 2011  

I think Joe jonas and her are soul sisters, he is the one she dated longer before they split. Others guys, it wasn’t serious with them.
But i disagree, the coolest star in hollywood is GEORGES CLOONEY

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Posted at 6:50 PM on October 28, 2011  

Joe and Taylor only dated a few months before he met the stunning Camilla Belle. Taylor needs to take it slow in relationships because I think she falls too fast and scares them off.

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Posted at 2:24 AM on May 12, 2011  

believe you will love it.

====( w w w )( jordans forking )( c o m )


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Posted at 12:25 AM on May 12, 2011  

What a great girl. The ONLY thing she has against her is dating sooooo many guys. If she’s not careful she’ll get the “slut” tag.

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Posted at 12:46 AM on May 13, 2011  

@jason– Yeah, she would totally deserve that tag for having a social life.

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Posted at 10:29 PM on May 11, 2011  

Taylor Swift is a remarkable young woman and is such a wonderful role model for the youth today. Thank you for writing about someone inspirational, please write more about the good in this country. Taylor, you WILL find the right guy, you’ll just have to kiss a few frogs before the prince. Kudo’s to Taylor!

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Posted at 5:37 PM on May 12, 2011  


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Posted at 1:57 PM on May 13, 2011  

Taylor has the worst voice in country music and she is so fake.

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Posted at 3:04 PM on May 13, 2011  

I disagree with Fred taylor has a fabulous voice, and definitely agree with Pegs!

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Posted at 3:29 AM on May 14, 2011  

Taylor Swift is the most genuine, real, down to earth, normal person in hollywood and nashville combined. she is ANYTHING but fake. or a bad singer, she actually is fantastic live. if you dont like her then maybe you shouldn’t read stories about her and comment on them.. thats a waste of your time.

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Posted at 12:25 AM on May 17, 2011  

That’s what I think about her. FAKE It’s not a surprise BFuller likes her. Bonnie loves fake pretentious ppl.

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Posted at 7:23 AM on May 14, 2011  

oh,I love her so much,I like her character and all her songs

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Posted at 9:10 PM on May 11, 2011  

Taylor is awesome. Everything about her is awesome. Haters can suck it. That’s all.

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Posted at 12:29 AM on May 17, 2011  

And that’s because nibody wants to date her more than 5 dates. Because she’s awesome. lol

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