What You Should Do When The Guy You're Dating Calls You A 'Friend' As Justin Bieber Did To Selena Gomez

Mon, May 9, 2011 12:11pm EDT by 7 Comments
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Is there something wrong if he isn’t calling you his girlfriend?

Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez are clearly a couple. They kiss, they cuddle, they vacation, they hold hands in public. But after her recent denial of love in Seventeen magazine, he’s now referring to her as his ‘friend.’ Even worse, he claims to be playing the field! What gives?

“She’s one of my best friends,” the 17-year-old singer said of Selena, 18, during an interview with a Kiwi television program. “I think that’s an important thing in my life is dating around and having some sort of a personal life.”

Best friends? Or do you just mean ‘friends with benefits’, Biebs? Either way, Selena is being insulted by her younger man, and she needs to take action immediately!

Unfortunately, there’s really no easy way out with this one. You can’t make a guy start a) looking you in a different light or b) start referring to you as something else unless you broach the topic. So you’re going to have to tell him that it bothers you and ask you what the deal is.

In this case, Justin is probably trying to hold on to some semblance of his singledom, given that his fans haven’t always been fully supportive of the idea that he has a lady love. But saying you’re ‘dating around’ doesn’t leave much room for discussion, and Selena would be right to be hurt, confused and worried about where their relationship is heading.

Sorry, but if it gets this far you’re going to have to talk the talk with your man. You already know it’s bad, so prepare yourself if he feeds you that old line “I’m just not ready for something serious right now” — because you’re probably going to be hearing it!

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Victoria

Posted at 6:41 PM on May 12, 2011  

Wow I can’t believe it . They looked so good together even if selena would look good with her costar in wizards of wavily place .the on that plays mason

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aquarius64

Posted at 7:41 PM on May 9, 2011  

To the girls who would date a star who would not formally and publicly state your the gf, you really like being seen as the meaningless jump off? He, and other stars like him, knows he can get a DOZEN like you the next day. (This applies to girls in and out of the industry.) You’ve established he doesn’t have to respect you because you want to be around him for the bling and the fame. If you’re in the business, being seen with him boosts your profile. And if you’re with him because you truly care for him, some paramaters need to be set to be in a healthy relationship.

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nolifeatschool

Posted at 5:23 PM on May 9, 2011  

dude, not cool, plus she already admitted it!!! STUPID!! <3

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samy

Posted at 4:30 PM on May 9, 2011  

not cool selena should date taylor

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isabella

Posted at 2:27 PM on May 9, 2011  

if it was justin bieber who i was dating, who cares if he calls me a friend! he’s hot and famous! ;)

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chelsea

Posted at 10:32 PM on May 9, 2011  

hi justin is so cute

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shaz

Posted at 3:39 PM on May 10, 2011  

u are really stuip chelesa u need a life if justin bieber was cheating on u u would go ror it!!!!!!!!!!! just shut up and keep your comments to your self

 
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