Are Justin Bieber & Selena Too Young To Be Sharing A Hotel Room Together?

Tue, April 26, 2011 6:00am EDT by 55 Comments
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Justin, 17, and Selena, 18, were just spotted sharing a suite — and it’s not the first time! Are they really old enough? The Love Consultants take on the question exclusively for HollywoodLife.com!

Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez sometimes have been a bit coy about their relationship — but it doesn’t seem that these teenagers are at all shy about sharing a hotel suite. HollywoodLife.com asks The Love Consultants — professional matchmaker and dating coach Matt Titus and his wife, author and media personality Tamsen Fadal — if these two stars are too young to be appear to be so intimate!

Matt’s Take:

Justin and Selena have certainly been going strong as a couple — with the latest word that she joined him when his world tour made a stop in Malaysia.

The two teen lovebirds reportedly shared the presidential suite at the Kuala Lumpur Hilton and were described as “such a beautiful and loving couple” who “hardly stepped out of” their room. But is it OK for Justin and Selena to appear to be shacking up together at such young ages? They also had what looked to be a steamy getaway in St. Lucia this winter.

I say they are both too young for this. It’s hard to expect teenage romance to have weight or depth. Keeping it easy and fun is key — and overnight stays in high-class resorts definitely cross the danger line!

Of course, Justin and Selena aren’t normal teens, and they have the luxury to spend whatever they want to ensure privacy. So it’s not a surprise they’d share quality time in a presidential suite. But just because they are embraced by fans and the media alike, doesn’t make it right. It’s irresponsible at their ages.

Justin is a young guy engrossed in a high-profile career. I’ve seen a distressing cycle taking place with him, ever since the release of his movie Never Say Never and the revelation of his relationship with Selena. He’s increasingly acted out in a negative fashion. Flipping the bird to photographers and lashing out at the demands of the attention he gets shows that the pressure of fame may be getting to him — and his support team needs change their playbook!

Spending time alone in a hotel room with Selena could be just too much to handle. His mother Pattie Mallette his guiding light — needs to  stop this behavior. Now.

Justin, spending overnights with Selena is a no-no!. You and Selena are teens who need to be guarded and guided.

Tamsen’s Take:

I think Justin and Selena really do make a  sweet couple. They’re cute, talented and seem to really have fun together. But I believe things are moving way too fast for them!

Teens need to doing things like go to the movies, the mall or spend time together on Skype, not share the presidential suite in a tropical paradise! Yes, I know that for two young people as famous as Selena and Justin, it is nearly impossible to be “normal teenagers.” They need guidance from the adults in their lives to stay on the right path.

Their parents should NOT be teaching them that life is getting everything you want, whenever you want it. Justin, especially, is too young to be engaging in an activity that should be reserved for adults. He is a minor at 17 and would not even be able to rent a hotel room on his own.

There is no all-encompassing guidebook for teaching teens the in-and-outs of dating, relationships and intimacy. There’s even less life-coaching info out there for young talents who have fame and fortune. So I’m hoping once again that the adults in Justin and Selena’s lives are keenly aware of every move these kids are making.

Justin and Selena, you need to truly enjoy the quality time you get to spend together — celebrate your young romance for everything that it is!

And your parents need to educate you both on everything your wonderful young romance is NOT — meaning this is not yet an adult relationship!

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Double A

Posted at 4:58 PM on April 27, 2011  

They’re 18 and 17. That’s a junior and senior in high school. So them sharing a hotel suite is like teenagers spending the night at eachother’s house. Completely normal in its own way. This is completely okay and shouldn’t be looked at as “irresponsible”. They are old enough to make their own decisions and i must admit. If i was in their position i think this would be so sick to be able to do. Plus you only live life once, make every second count right?

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I hate Puritans

Posted at 11:05 AM on April 27, 2011  

Grow up people and stop acting like puritans. Selena Gomez is 18 and Justin Bieber is 17. Selena Gomez is NOT too young to be alone in a bedroom with a guy, she’s an ADULT. And since in 38 out of 50 states the age of consent is 16 or 17, a 17 year old isn’t to young to be alone with his girlfriend either.

Even if they are having sex, it’s not wrong because they’re both at the age of consent. LIKE IT OR NOT, TEENS HAVE THE RIGHT TO EXPLORE THEIR SEXUALITY. One of them is an adult and the other is only 11 months away from being an adult. 17 is not that much younger than 18. Build a bridge and get over it, prudes. This is 2011, not 1811.

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gabby

Posted at 2:32 PM on April 27, 2011  

i am mad at them two because thay to ungan to sleep in the bed to geater

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tahnee

Posted at 5:09 AM on April 27, 2011  

Selena is a devoted Catholic, she even wears one of them promise rings, for purity. I doubt she’s dumb enough to be doing what you think they’re doing. For all you know they’re playing cards or X-Box or something. Let it go. It’s not your problem.

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valdone

Posted at 6:23 AM on April 27, 2011  

u do know that she took of the ring after the night they spent together at the hotel?so i don’t think they were doing anything ‘innocent’ that night.btw i’m a fan of justin and i think he is amazing and so is selena but they’re taking it too far…

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Kelly

Posted at 12:11 AM on April 27, 2011  

The author of this article raises some good points. And somebody here mentioned that most states have a age of consent law of 16 or 17. Well, actually in 12 states in the US, the age of consent law is 18. Those states are: Arizona, California, Delaware, Florida, Idaho, North Dakota, Oregon, Tennessee, Utah, Virginia, Wisconsin, and Wyoming. If you don’t believe it, you can check it out yourself.

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azrael

Posted at 10:52 AM on April 27, 2011  

Yes, but there are 50 states in America. Out of those 50 states, 38 of them have either 16 or 17 as the age of consent. Majority rules.

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Chelsea

Posted at 11:48 PM on April 26, 2011  

I’m 17, and I’ve shared hotel rooms with 18 year old guys before, sometimes my boyfriend, sometimes just a friend. They’re adults and are responsible, and they should be allowed to share a hotel room without it being a huge deal.

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MaRiArE

Posted at 9:33 PM on April 26, 2011  

No they shouldn’t they are too young a JB is just 17 years old

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valdone

Posted at 6:24 AM on April 27, 2011  

exactly.

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emily

Posted at 3:58 PM on April 26, 2011  

I HATE selena !!!!!!!!! they should not be togetherr ugghh . she is groosss

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Pickley

Posted at 8:24 PM on April 26, 2011  

Emily – grow up a little. Does your parents know that you are acting like a nasty little 12 year old on the internet? Go and do your spelling homework.

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Pickley

Posted at 8:26 PM on April 26, 2011  

* Do your parents – my mistake.

 
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gaga lady

Posted at 12:16 AM on April 27, 2011  

she probably is 12….most of justin’s fans are. AND most of them are insanely jealous of selena too…

 
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kelsey

Posted at 3:54 PM on April 26, 2011  

omg shut up

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mimi

Posted at 3:20 PM on April 26, 2011  

Miley Cyrus is 18. If she were to spend a night at a hotel with her boyfriend Liam, I bet everybody would call her a whore, complain about her “bad” parents, and say she was setting a bad example.

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Pickley

Posted at 8:27 PM on April 26, 2011  

I am so sick of Miley Cyrus’ name popping up on stories about Selena. I wish that Miley fans would stop being so petty. Grow up, kids!

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Msa

Posted at 2:29 PM on April 26, 2011  

I have never read such utter garbage. Possibly the worse piece of journalism you will find on the web.

Basic research would have told you they were never alone -in a suite with multiple rooms. Then you comment on the media attention they get, and wonder why they have to hide in the hotel.

What do you expect them to do? McDonalds and a movie?

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Pickley

Posted at 8:28 PM on April 26, 2011  

Msa – thank you for acting like a responsible reader! This site just LOVES to shovel around the dirt and organize smear campaigns!

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elle

Posted at 11:29 AM on April 26, 2011  

Do u people really believe they were alone? I highly doubt they were! He has a Big crew ya know!

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Billy

Posted at 11:43 AM on April 26, 2011  

It’s not the first time they have slept together.

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Pickley

Posted at 8:29 PM on April 26, 2011  

Billy – oh, do you PERSONALLY guarantee that they have “slept together”? Don’t talk like you know what is going on in their lives.

 
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blossom

Posted at 10:58 AM on April 27, 2011  

b**** shut the f*** up watever your name is pickely….!!!!!!! one more thing GROW UPP B****

 
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Pickley

Posted at 11:26 PM on April 27, 2011  

Blossom – That’s very very funny. Get back to me when you learn how to spell.

 
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Billy

Posted at 11:18 AM on April 26, 2011  

I’m more concerned what kids pick up from the filth that appears on our tv, than about two teenagers who technically are of legal age in many parts of the world, do what is natural for a couple who are in love. What did you expect them to do, play monopoly all night long? I’m sure whatever Justin and Selena do, is done out of love for each other.

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MKMK.

Posted at 11:01 AM on April 26, 2011  

o come on, let them alone.
why everybody says they are to young for having sex,
in the netherlands is 17 & 18 a normal age for having sex.
and.
what do you want, that they are gonna sleep apart? with their parents right behind them? come on.
okay, i’m sorry my english is not really good, but i hope you guys understand what i’m trying to say: THEY CAN MAKE THEIR OWN DECISIONS!

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blaize

Posted at 10:35 AM on April 26, 2011  

Some people are such prudes. Selena Gomez is 18 years old. She’s an adult. There’s nothing wrong with an 18 year old being alone with her boyfriend, and there’s nothing wrong with an 18 year old having sex.

Justin Bieber may still be a minor, but he’s 17. In most states the age of consent is 16 or 17. It would be different if they were 15 or younger. A person who’s only 11 months away from being an adult is not too young to be alone with his girlfriend or have sex.

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geno

Posted at 9:03 AM on April 26, 2011  

i highly doubt that they were alone in s hotel room.

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bz

Posted at 8:37 AM on April 26, 2011  

i stopped trusting that second person’s opinion when she said “teens need to be doing things like spending time together on Skype”. what a dipsh*t.

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chanahpattinson

Posted at 8:36 AM on April 26, 2011  

JUSTIN BIEBER AND SELENA GOMEZ IN BALI-INDONESIA.
#Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez had a secret day
in the world’s most beautiful island Bali, located in
Indonesia.
#Looking so happy, Selena sitting on Justin’s lap.
Justin tweeted:
“ After a long 24 hours and some crazy plane
trouble we finally made it out. Thank you to
Indonesia and our secret day in BALI.”
check it now! http://ijustinbieber.net/justin-bieber-and-selena-gomez-in-bali/

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francis

Posted at 7:53 AM on April 26, 2011  

reading through this comment, I understood that some people are mad, one calling this child world wide fame achiever! two, saying he has right to have sex at his age. when hurricane and earth quake start happening in the usa people think is just nature doing. you people are cause for allowing gay right, stupid things all for claiming we are civilize, girl working nude, musician pupping into drugs, etc. the worst place to bring up a child remain the usa because of all thing nonsense.

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Mike

Posted at 7:24 AM on April 26, 2011  

I advise Bieber to follow Sarah Palin’s advice:
DRILL, BABY DRILL!!!

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Jbl

Posted at 7:12 AM on April 26, 2011  

They are young but they have their rights

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paul

Posted at 6:52 AM on April 26, 2011  

A suite has always more bedrooms and bathrooms, also was the mother of Justin Bieber present.
Some of the so-called “websites-authors” can only be described as a Demagogue.

Demagogue:
Term for a person that is able to influence via verbal attacks (incitement, libel) or part of the mass of the population (incite / seduce) and therefore (without conscience) to exercise power.

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Yu Lee

Posted at 6:47 AM on April 26, 2011  

I don’t think the KL Hilton has got a “presidential suite”! The photo is an old one and u don’t tell us exactly who spotted them! Nice try!

The fact is that Justin could have a thousand girls every nite but he doesn’t. According to Selena’s Mother, she is still a virgin! It proves that Justin’s self control is awesome!

PAPs follow him 24/7 yet he flipped the bird only once! At every interview Justin Bieber is asked about his huge world wide fame, yet he doesn’t even blink, he’s as humble as the day he left Stratford!

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victory

Posted at 6:44 AM on April 26, 2011  

My thoughts exactly. These are kids, both 17, what are they sharing a hotel room for? Where are their parents? Poor judgement on the PR department for letting this news get out. In middle America, this would be considered a scandal.

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Mario

Posted at 7:26 AM on April 26, 2011  

not the same in Spain. At least, one of them is over 18, so is a legal age.

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Donna

Posted at 6:37 AM on April 26, 2011  

And where were chaparones since he is underage and can’t legally rent a hotel room himself, she is only 18 and technically not of legal age either, doubt if she was traveling so far on her own. Someone needs to wake up here and look at what kind of messages these two are sending out to their many teenage fans, not a good one! It doesn’t matter what they did or didn’t do, stay in the same hotel in their own rooms, and present a good image. He looks like a baby, sexy just doesn’t enter my mind when I look at him. He has a good image now but is going to do something soon that is going to shake up his world, then we will see parents entering the picture.

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lloyd

Posted at 6:41 AM on April 26, 2011  

Make sure they have rubbers!!

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Joseph....

Posted at 6:29 AM on April 26, 2011  

I dont see any crime in them spending time together in a Presidential Suite….. All they need is just oral orientation on how to spend their lives as lovely couples…

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frankieluc

Posted at 7:54 AM on April 26, 2011  

umm…. wat did u just say no PROB?!!!!!! wth they are still a kid and they need to keep their status as good as they get,they should give a good look for their fans,they are a lovely couple but come’on u both are too young to be in a ‘presedential suite ALONE’ and what will u both doing there..if yes selena mom say she’s a virgin then wth she’s doing in the room alone with justin. I know u guys LOVES THEM well guess wat? I LOVE THEM TOO..so as i said i just care bout u both and hope that u both read this><

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