What happened to Kim’s strict ‘no dating for a year rule?’ Oh yeah, his name is Kris Humphries
Kim Kardashian made a very firm pre-New Year’s resolution last year: she swore up and down that she was abstaining from men for a year after failed relationships with football players Reggie Bush and Miles Austin. However, a half year later she’s “in love” with basketball star Kris Humphries, and happily admits that love appeared when she wasn’t looking. Could this happen to you?
“I think for as much as you can plan for anything, you can’t fight love. There’s just no way around it,” the 30-year-old reality star told My Fox NY. “I was single long enough though.”
Kim even says that she’d move to NYC — Kris currently plays for the New Jersey Nets — to be closer to her man. “I would love to [move here],” she said. “I love New York City. There’s nothing like the energy here. The boyfriend is here too so that makes it easy. That’s probably a big excuse why I come. I have been kind of keeping my eyes open.”
And although Kris hasn’t proposed yet (it has only been a few months, after all), the brunette beauty says she now knows not to hurry love and has taken the attitude that whatever happens, happens. “He hasn’t [asked me to marry him yet]. We’ve been dating six months now and I’m having so much fun,” she said. “I’d hope that I wouldn’t know when that’s going to happen. I can’t predict the future. I have no idea.”
It’s true that those who seem to be looking for love the most never find it, and a reason could be that you’re putting too much pressure on yourself and on the situation. You’re setting unreasonable goals and not letting life — and love — take its natural course. Having a boyfriend may seem like the most important thing in the world, but until you’re happy with who you are, and happy being alone, my prediction is that the right guy won’t be coming along. And who wants Mr. OK For Right Now? You deserve better.
I would like to think that Kim went into her ‘no dating for a year’ rule with the best of intentions, and that she genuinely planned on seeing it through instead of just blowing hot air. Who knows? Whatever she did worked. I’ll leave you again with her quote of the day — and I hope you believe it: “You can’t fight love.”