Bethenny Frankel: How Your Exes Can Point You To Mr. Right! Exclusive!

Thu, March 24, 2011 4:12pm EST by Add first Comment
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Her new book says your relationships aren’t coincidences — they reveal recurring themes in your life! Bethenny tells you how to decode your own dating game.

Have you gone through a ton of guys and just don’t understand why you haven’t found Mr. Right yet? Well Bethenny Ever After star Bethenny Frankel has some dating advice to share with you in her new book A Place of Yes: 1o Rules for Getting Everything You Want Out of Life. And Bethenny explains to exclusively how to learn from failed relationships.

“It’s a take it or leave it concept,” Bethenny tells us. “Rather than be bitter about old relationships or pine after them, take the good from them and build upon it.”

“If there is something you don’t like, you leave it behind,” says Bethenny. “In the next relationship, you add some new great things.”

Bethenny goes into more depth about this in a chapter entitled “Find Your Truth: How I Finally Met My Match.” “Our relationships are mirrors,” she writes. “Finding your truth by thoughtfully examining your past is the only way to use your truth for better future relationships.”

And once you do find Mr. Right, Bethenny warns not to nit-pick the relationship to death. “If it’s not broken, don’t fix it,” Bethenny tells us. “Sometimes you don’t need to add or subtract anything. But as women, we can’t help ourselves sometimes.”

“Learn to leave it alone,” she advises. “Don’t overthink what’s good!”

Be sure to pick up your copy of A Place of Yes available now in stores and online!

– Lindsey DiMattina