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LAURA'S LOVE ADVICE: Will Something Crazy Like Making Out With Girls, As Vanessa Hudgens Did, Get Your Ex Back?

Tue, March 15, 2011 11:45am EDT by 1 Comment

Vanessa was snapped smooching Zoey 101 star Alexa Nikolas. Is this an effective way of trying to get ex-BF Zac Efron back?

Desperate times call for desperate measures, which is why, in the wake of her split from long-time boyfriend Zac Efron, Vanessa Hudgens may have decided to make out with a girl. But does this kind of bad gal behavior work in reclaiming an ex’s heart, or does it just scream out ‘desperado?’

Snaps were just leaked of the 22-year-old Beastly starlet making out with Zoey 101 star Alexa Nikolas after a serious late-night partying session. Although V has gained a reputation as somewhat of a bad girl after nude photos hit the Internet in 2007 and 2009, this seems like a calculated move to prove to her ex that she isn’t the woman he outgrew. But will it work?

The answer: NO. Zac and Vanessa are still friends, still on good terms and still hanging out — but once a guy gets over you, he doesn’t look back. Men aren’t as oblivious as they seem sometimes, and because Zac knows his former GF so well, he’ll see right through this charade if she did have a lesbian smooch to get his attention. Vanessa once said that Zac kept her “grounded” — and this very ungrounded behavior might be her cry for help.

If Vanessa is feeling lost and adrift after her breakup, it’s her prerogative to do what she wants — if she’s doing it for the right reasons. But if she’s simply doing it because she thinks it’s going to fix what’s broken, well, sorry sister, but it won’t work.

So don’t try something similar at home. If your ex is really and truly over you, nothing you can do in terms of proving you’re a sexy, desirable, dangerous woman is going to work. Focus on getting over him, healing and moving on. Think about the next guy you’ll meet, and save some racy behavior for keeping your next relationship fresh.


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