24-year-old Glee starlet Dianna is allegedly engaged — and her fiance isn’t even old enough to legally drink! Will age be a problem when it comes to the longevity of their relationship?
First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes Quinn in baby in a baby carriage! This is reportedly the road that Glee starlet Dianna Agron, 24, and her 20-year-old boyfriend Alex Pettyfer are headed down…but how can the couple even begin to think about marriage when he’s practically still a baby himself?
The two have allegedly been engaged for months after Dianna stripped her I Am Number Four co-sar of his player ways. “The second he fell for Dianna, Alex changed,” a source reports. “He stopped seeing other girls and is absolutely head over heels.”
As true as that may be, can Alex possibly be feeling something that isn’t puppy love? It’s a known fact that men mature at a slower rate than women do, and when you factor in that the boy isn’t even legally able to go to bars with Dianna…well, the situation is just a recipe for complete and utter disaster.
There is a small success rate for college romances to survive, so I can’t say that all young love marriages won’t work out — but these kids are in Hollywood, the land of temptation and quickie divorces. They’re both on the cusp of becoming huge stars, which may cause problems when besotted fans or sexy co-stars come a’callin’.
Alex and Dianna are only an example. I don’t believe that anyone should get married before they fully know who they are, what they want from life and are at a place where they believe they can achieve it. When you’re young, you’re still figuring things out — and that’s OK. But when you add marriage into the mix, you’re not giving yourself a fair shot to find out who you can be without a partner — you have to constantly be thinking of someone else’s welfare.
I know it sounds terrible, but when you’re young BE SELFISH. Allow yourself the time to figure out what YOU want. If your boyfriend is still around a few years down the line when that happens, then he really IS the one for you. Remember this saying: if you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it’s yours…and if it doesn’t, it never was.