LAURA'S LOVE LIFE ADVICE: Should You Be Cool About Your Man Having A Boys Night Out, Like K-Stew Did With Rob?

Thu, January 27, 2011 11:35am EST by 3 Comments

Robert Pattinson went out partying with the boys of Breaking Dawn. Should GF Kristen Stewart have let a man this gorgeous out on his own?

When there’s excessive amounts of alcohol involved, there’s usually debauchery — which is why most women loathe the thought of their man having a boys night out. But Kristen Stewart played it cool when BF Robert Pattinson wanted a rowdy night out with the boys of Breaking Dawn. Should you have a similar reaction when YOUR boyfriend wants to play with his pals?

To be fair, R-Patz‘s “night on the town” with the boys of Twilight like Michael Sheen, Kellan Lutz, Jackson Rathbone and Jamie Campbell-Bower seemed fairly harmless. They dropped some lemon shots and ate sushi — not exactly stripclubs and lapdances! But perhaps the hunky Brit was behaving because he had K-Stew’s blessing.

Kristen‘s nonchalant attitude towards letting her BF party without her is awesome, and the best way to be in a relationship. You never want to tell your man he can’t do something — he’s going to want to do the exact opposite. Instead, be the great girlfriend that you are and trust him (even if you don’t…pretend). Remember, he didn’t get involved with you because he wanted another mom.

To keep your mind off of what trouble he’s causing, I suggest having a night of your own. Even if it doesn’t involve The Hangover-style shenanigans your boyfriend may be having, do something that makes YOU happy. Grab your girls and head dancing, or buy a bottle of wine and sit around watching old movies. Whatever it is, if you’re genuinely worried that your man might be getting into trouble, do something that will distract you.

And when he gets home all worse for the wear, don’t ask too many questions. A simple — and non-loaded — ‘Did you have fun?’ will suffice. I guarantee you that giving his freedom is the best thing you can possibly do.


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Posted at 11:40 AM on January 28, 2011  

All men desreve to have alone time with the guys. And if you need your girlfriend’s permission to go out with the guys then it is time to rethink your relationship.

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Posted at 12:40 AM on January 28, 2011  

i thinks it true, i agree, letting your boyfriend out on his own can prove that u trust him.

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Christina Hansen

Posted at 7:35 PM on January 27, 2011  

Shut up! You people are a joke. So Robert and the guys went out for dinner and had drinks. Robert does not need Kristen blessing to go out with the boys. So stop with the advice that you people so know so well. So shut up!

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