LAURA'S LOVE LIFE ADVICE: Jennifer Aniston, You're Putting Yourself Down Again — Confidence Is Sexy!

Tue, January 18, 2011 11:06am EDT by 2 Comments

How can Jen expect a man to love her if she doesn’t love herself?

Jennifer Aniston is NOT the queen of confidence — and I suspect that’s her biggest problem when it comes to holding down a serious relationship with a decent man. How can she expect someone else to afford her the same courtesy  if she doesn’t seriously care about herself? That said, Brad Pitt‘s ex needs to get over her physical issues — and fast!

For example, she actually hated the haircut that launched her to super-stardom! “That damn Rachel…was not my best look. How do I say this? I think it was the ugliest haircut I’ve ever seen,” she says of her Friends shag in the February issue of Allure magazine.

The 41-year-old actress continues to grouse that she has difficulty in maintaining her perfect body. “My stomach is not my hardest [challenge]-my derriere is much more my challenge,” she adds.

You may disagree with me here, but I happen to think Jennifer Aniston is one of the most beautiful women on the planet. She’s got great skin, great hair and a perfect body. What’s NOT to love about yourself if you look like her? I want to hear words of self-acceptance and self-love come out of her mouth — not this ‘Well, I could be better’ BS.

Seriously, not only will it boost her morale to really be happy with who she is, but it will be a damn sight better for her love life, too. Men love confident, sexy women. They don’t want a girlfriend that’s constantly riddled in self doubt about her appearance. They don’t want to constantly have to reassure their lady love that she “doesn’t look fat” in that dress. He wants to compliment her and have her say a simple “thank you” — because she believes she deserves said compliment.

Remember ladies, confidence is sexy. It implies that you believe you’re not only good enough for any man, but that you deserve to be treated with respect. Jen, it’s high time you got some….double entendre intended.


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