LAURA'S LOVE LIFE ADVICE: Should You Take Your BF Back After He Dumps You Like Vanessa Just Did With Zac?

Mon, January 10, 2011 11:32am EDT by 6 Comments

Although Zac Efron dumped Vanessa Hudgens, his GF of nearly five years, it looks like she’s taking him back! Is she doing the right thing?

Imagine this scenario: the love of your life dumps you, breaks your heart, and refuses to spend your birthday with you. But then — like magic — he wants you back on his terms. If this sounds familiar, then you’re in the same predicament that Vanessa Hudgens is in. However, it appears that the 22-year-old starlet has decided to run back to ex-boyfriend Zac Efron‘s manly arms — but is she making a smart decision?

In this particular scenario I think Vanessa is making a wise choice. The two were teenagers when they met on the set of High School Musical and grew into adulthood together. After nearly five years as a couple, they needed to branch out and make sure that they were staying together for the right reason — love — instead of comfortability.

You know the expression ‘if it’s yours, it will come back to you’? That’s apparently the case for these two former Disney darlings, who were spotted making out at a Los Angeles dance club just weeks after their split was announced. They gave each other space, and decided they were better together.

Now, if Zac had cheated, the situation would be different. In no way would I ever condone Vanessa accepting him back into her life, regardless of the amount of time they had been together. But he didn’t — and clearly missed her enough to come crawling back. For her sake, I hope he groveled.

Have you ever taken an ex back after he broke up with you, HollywoodLifers? Did it work out? Leave a comment below!

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