LAURA'S LOVE LIFE ADVICE: Should You Take Your BF Back After He Dumps You Like Vanessa Just Did With Zac?

Mon, January 10, 2011 11:32am EST by 6 Comments

Although Zac Efron dumped Vanessa Hudgens, his GF of nearly five years, it looks like she’s taking him back! Is she doing the right thing?

Imagine this scenario: the love of your life dumps you, breaks your heart, and refuses to spend your birthday with you. But then — like magic — he wants you back on his terms. If this sounds familiar, then you’re in the same predicament that Vanessa Hudgens is in. However, it appears that the 22-year-old starlet has decided to run back to ex-boyfriend Zac Efron‘s manly arms — but is she making a smart decision?

In this particular scenario I think Vanessa is making a wise choice. The two were teenagers when they met on the set of High School Musical and grew into adulthood together. After nearly five years as a couple, they needed to branch out and make sure that they were staying together for the right reason — love — instead of comfortability.

You know the expression ‘if it’s yours, it will come back to you’? That’s apparently the case for these two former Disney darlings, who were spotted making out at a Los Angeles dance club just weeks after their split was announced. They gave each other space, and decided they were better together.

Now, if Zac had cheated, the situation would be different. In no way would I ever condone Vanessa accepting him back into her life, regardless of the amount of time they had been together. But he didn’t — and clearly missed her enough to come crawling back. For her sake, I hope he groveled.

Have you ever taken an ex back after he broke up with you, HollywoodLifers? Did it work out? Leave a comment below!

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beverly

Posted at 5:54 AM on May 13, 2011  

It didnt work out, we stuck in there for about two month to see if it would work. I guess it was silly for moi to go back into the relationship in the first place… we so better off apart, but i still want zanessa so back

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Leslie

Posted at 2:13 AM on January 14, 2011  

Yep, I heard it was Vanessa who wanted to step back and take a look at their relationship. I know there are thousands of girls out there who could NEVER imagine her doing that, but she did. Zac is not perfect, you know? He picks his nose and goes to the bathroom just like every other guy out there.

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sammy

Posted at 8:48 AM on January 11, 2011  

i have but the guy cheated on me so its not the same we lost the trust after that its was over no matter how much the poor bastard begged

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SCARLET

Posted at 7:49 PM on January 10, 2011  

they should not broke up!!!!!!!
zac and vanessa,think what you 2 have done with each other.

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nessa

Posted at 7:45 PM on January 10, 2011  

what a stupid decision they made!!!
i was really,really sad and shocked when i heard that zanessa splits up…
i kept on crying the whole night
i lose my appetite of eating bcoz of sadness…
that’s how zanessa break-up affects my life…
hope zanessa will be together again..
hope that 1 day,they’ll realize that they are meant for each other…I LOVE YOU…ZANESSA!!!!!

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Mel

Posted at 12:12 PM on January 10, 2011  

While I think it’s great that the two have patched things up, he never dumped her. She was the one who suggested they take a break. They did. They worked out their problems. The end.

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