Bonnie Says: Miley Cyrus' Bong Smoking Is A Desperate Cry For Her Parents To Pay Attention!

Fri, December 10, 2010 2:03pm EDT by 19 Comments

Tish and Billy Ray Cyrus — you have to stop fighting with each other and tell your troubled daughter to knock it off!

Miley partied with friends, five days after her 18th birthday getting giddily high on a bong, smoking LSD-like Salvia. Now, Salvia may not be an illegal substance in California, as it is in many other states, but that doesn’t make her behavior any less self-destructive than if she was snorting cocaine.

Furthermore, Miley knew that she was being videotaped while she smoked and laughed like a hyena. What does that mean? It means Billy Ray and Tish, that she desperately wants you to know AND to act like her parents and tell her to stop, now!

She doesn’t really want to be left unsupervised, partying in her house when you both are God knows where! And boy Billy Ray Cyrus has just pretty much fully admitted that he DOESN’T know what his daughter is up to – he tweeted at 3:40 pm est Fri, Dec. 10, “Sorry guys. I had no idea. Just saw this stuff for the first time myself. I’m so sad. There is so much beyond my control right now.”

How bizarre is this? The video of Miley bong smoking hit the Web at 1:00 a.m. that morning on TMZ. Where is he living — on the planet Pluto?

“Her parents are apparently too busy arguing with each other to notice their daughter. And now Miley is ingesting something which will alter her reality. She’s doing this because her reality is so painful that she wants to escape it,” says psychotherapist Dr. Gilda Carle of drgilda.com.

“No matter how old you are — you are affected deeply by your parents divorce. Many people like Miley aren’t able to verbalize their grief so they act out,” agrees psychologist Dr. Jeff Gardere, contributor to HealthGuru.com.

The unique problem that Miley has is that she’s no ordinary teenager  whose “acting out” is only noticed by her family and close friends.  She knows that during the past year, every time she has misbehaved — wearing see-thru tops in public, drinking underage — she’s set off a firestorm of attention in the press.

Yet despite these public displays of attention-seeking, the only thing is that what really matters to her — attention from her parents — doesn’t appear to be forthcoming. And since publicly exposing her breasts didn’t work, she’s pushing the self-destructive limits — smoking hallucinogenic herbs in a bong.

Salvia isn’t banned in California, but it can cause depression and anxiety, as a side effect according to psychiatrist, Dr. Keith Ablow, author of the upcoming book, The 7: Seven Wonders That Will Change Your Life.

I have to wonder Tish and Billy Ray — where the hell are you? Why is Miley able to party alone with her friends at home — why aren’t you there supervising her? Just because she’s 18 now, doesn’t mean that she’s mature and that your responsibilities as parents are over and done with. Billy Ray, disciplining your daughter is absolutely within your control.

Miley said that her biggest wish for her 18th birthday was to have her whole family together for a vacation. I believe her. But you didn’t listen.

Now she’s trying to compel you to be together. “She wants to force her parents to come back together to deal with her,” says Dr. Carle. “And she’ll keep upping the ante to get their attention.”

Furthermore Billy Ray and Tish. Just because your daughter is a celebrity doesn’t mean she shouldn’t be treated like a normal teenager and that means rules.

“All parents — even those who have a celebrity as a child, need to monitor their teens’ activities, look out for their best interests and let them know they are loved and that you don’t want them doing things which can hurt them,” emphasizes child psychologist, Dr. Lawrence Balter.

Do you hear that Billy Ray and Tish? Your daughter isn’t just a celebrity and  she isn’t just a brand. Normal parenting rules still need to apply to Miley and she desperately wants them. Step up, be the parents she yearns for and throw that bong away!


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gabrielle

Posted at 8:21 PM on March 20, 2011  

omg this is so a cry for attention! i wish miley could see this but obviosly i dont know her. ive been through this thing but not inbolving smoking and boys but with a huge rebellious streak. all she needs to do is just stay strong and try and get her parents to understand how she feels.

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Kat

Posted at 10:33 AM on January 2, 2011  

OR… she’s not trying to get attention. Maybe she’s trying to be normal. This has nothing to do with her parent’s divorce. Please, people.

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Petal

Posted at 11:45 PM on December 14, 2010  

This little girl, has, like so many before her, mistaken trashy for alluring. It’s part of being young snd restless, and hsppens to look like hell. Whorish is not appealing. Find a stylist with decent taste – your current look is a bit obvious, Miss Cyrus – try a suggestion rather than a challenge.

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Patty

Posted at 5:12 PM on December 12, 2010  

Billy Ray Cyrus has allowed his daughter to become what appears to be an exhibitionist to get the attention that she craves which is making her out to look like a little slut due to his lack of parenting. He has allowed her to do whatever she wanted to do from the time she was a young girl. Any parent that allows a 15 year old girl to date someone in their 20’s has no business being a parent. That is a form of child abuse. Billy Ray and Trish, you both should be ashamed of yourselves for what you have done to your daughter. The scars will be with her for the rest of her life.

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greg

Posted at 3:14 PM on December 12, 2010  

i dont get why people are shocked. almost every teenager these days has tried drugs of some sort. least this one was legal.

everyone needs to stop acting like disney kids live in a church commune and that they arent normal young adults.

i wish that demi lavatos secrets would be as public as mileys, beacause that girl is the real disney “wild child”

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lashawn

Posted at 2:22 PM on December 12, 2010  

Come on Miley get it together now Don’t let me down & please prove these people wrong. Your parents are getting divorced but it’s all good don’t fall apart now I’m praying for you.

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TT

Posted at 6:31 AM on December 12, 2010  

please go through everything. we know these days are hard. really hard. but remember:爱。

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Anony Mouse

Posted at 4:24 AM on December 12, 2010  

This is to fabricate some PR for an upcoming role in the movie BAD GIRLS, about a group of troubled teens in a high-class reform school (think MEAN GIRLS meets GIRL, INTERRUPTED). Look it up on imdb.com.

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Joe smhoe

Posted at 1:47 AM on December 12, 2010  

Miley’s so hot when she’s high.

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conscience

Posted at 5:38 AM on December 12, 2010  

why don’t you shut up and actually feel for another human being. Miley’s not just a sex object that you can drool over. She’s a real person and a human being. You should feel bad that her parents are not getting past their differences to help her. She wants a family and a normal life cause she’s tired of just being a big star, and she can’t have it because her parents are too busy with their problems.

Feel sorry for the girl. You should be ashamed.

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mandy

Posted at 10:13 PM on December 11, 2010  

i feel sooooooooooo sorry for her. shes going through a really hard time and she is doing this t forget. her parents need to stay together and look past their differences if they dont want miley to end up in a bad way. miley isnt doing this because she likes it. its obvious that she wants her parents to know that she still needs them both together.

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lari

Posted at 2:58 PM on December 11, 2010  

Miley was crying and pleading to billy & trish to not get divorced so yes shes going all crazy and smoking salvia which is more than likely actually weed. She just going to have to deal with it. she probably thinks if shes out of control that they will get back together, but apparently thats not going to be the case because they dont care enough. the fame & money of mileys has ruined there family!

Im shocked that miley isnt pregnat. She’ll end up just like Lindsay Lohan, Brittney&jamie spears, and all the other screwed up celebs on cocanie.

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No Turning Back

Posted at 1:46 PM on December 11, 2010  

What Bonnie doesn’t seem to realize is that since Miley Cyrus is now 18 (legally an adult) and lives on her own, she is now immune to parental rules and supervision. Once a child moves out and turns 18 parents lose their rights over that child. There’s nothing Billy Ray or Tish can do but try to be supportive at this point. She’s not a minor anymore and she has free will. Parents can’t be held accountable for the actions of their adult sons and daughters.

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FredFlintstone

Posted at 11:04 AM on December 11, 2010  

Maybe I missed something all u knuckleheads are getting didnt………but sounds like she did nothing wrong or illegal……………….

Why don’t all u go to church and pray for her…….as if that would do any good

WTF

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Dee

Posted at 7:05 AM on December 11, 2010  

Just like Lindsay Lohan. Maybe Miley will end up like her.
Ugh, Disney stars..

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alex

Posted at 11:38 PM on December 10, 2010  

uhhhh honey your right she should be treated like a normal teenager and teenagers do drugs. plus shes 18, shes an adult… pull that stick out yo ass and go take a bong hit honey

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mfan

Posted at 10:38 PM on December 10, 2010  

God, I swore I wouldn’t visit Hollywood Life again as it is run by sticks in the mud, but the preview on the feed was just too stupid to ignore! Miley is 18! I have been in the military, and I can tell you that 18 year olds in the army drink up a storm. If Miley was in college instead of going straight to her career, she would be around freshman who were, yes, drinking up a storm, illegally! At least miley is showing respect for the law.

Miley has already built up enough goodwill with me to have my support for the rest of my life. This site, in contrast, will never be visited by me again.

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julez

Posted at 3:29 AM on December 11, 2010  

Have you seen her video?

It’s not her happy go lucky party, but more like sad desperate girl who masked her laugh to cover her pain.

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maria

Posted at 6:08 PM on December 10, 2010  

Miley cyrus i cant belive it shes so not right in the head!

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