LAURA'S LOVE ADVICE: Is Your Man Being Unfaithful If He's Flirtexting A Female Pal, Like Tony & Eva's Situation?

Thu, November 18, 2010 3:56pm EST by 4 Comments
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How close should your BF be to his female friends? Tony Parker allegedly exchanged hundreds of texts with one of his in the span of a month!

After three years of marriage, Eva Longoria Parker reportedly decided to call it quits with hubby Tony Parker because he was being unfaithful – by exchanging hundreds of flirty texts with one of his female pals. But is this reason enough to file for divorce, and can Tony actually be branded a cheater?

Although the nature of the texts isn’t known at this time, reports suggest that the communication was of a “personal” but not a sexual nature. Regardless, the San Antonio Spurs star was devoting a ridiculous amount of time and attention to another female — which is definitely a no go in my book.

I’m a big believer in platonic male/female friendships. However, hundreds of texts in one month implies that Tony was at least emotionally cheating on Eva — if you’re texting anyone that much, it should be your same sex BFF, or your respective other.

However, although Eva is reportedly “heartbroken by the betrayal” and ending her marriage as a result, I believe she is jumping the gun. She and Tony have always seemed so in love — and until it’s proven otherwise, he hasn’t ACTUALLY physically cheated on her. If he hasn’t been outwardly unfaithful, they can still work on their relationship.

One thing is clear: Tony needs to quit texting another woman if he wants to keep Eva, regardless of whether they’re actually ‘friends’ or not!

What do you think, HollywoodLifers? Would you consider it a betrayal if your man was nonstop texting a female friend?

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laura

Posted at 2:19 AM on November 19, 2010  

I totally disagree. Emotional cheating is every bit as serious as physical cheating. In fact, it’s almost worse. If your significant other is emotionally invested and connected with someone else, then why would you want to be with them? How could you look at them everyday knowing that they’ve thrown all intimacy with you out the window? And there’s no way that you’d trust that person again. Good for Eva for recognizing the bs and just moving forward with divorce. It shows that she’s got self esteem and isn’t one of those women who are deluded into thinking that they can change a cheater.

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guest

Posted at 5:20 PM on November 18, 2010  

i read in another article that he cheated previously and she let it slide, she’d be stupid to keep looking the other way

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Russ Weakland

Posted at 4:39 PM on November 18, 2010  

Celebs should never get married, make their lives easier!

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luvyari

Posted at 4:04 PM on November 18, 2010  

it wasnt physical cheating but cheating is cheating. i also heard that he cheated earlier in there marriage. im so disappointed in tony he seemed like such a good guy. it makes it worse that it was with a teammates wife! his other teammates better be careful

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