Real Housewife of NY Kelly Bensimon Advises You: The Most Important Thing To Do With Your Children Is Create Memories! EXCLUSIVE!

Thu, October 28, 2010 6:58pm EST by 2 Comments

It’s so important to create memories with your children — it will be so special for them!

I think you need to spend as much time as possible with your children, on THEIR terms, NOT your terms. So whatever you’re doing — picking them up from school and asking about their day, taking them on errands, picking them up from swimming — really engage in your children’s lives, and don’t just expect them to be a part of yours.

Children are not accessories. I think that’s a really big problem with kids today: they’ve been raised as accessories to their parents. However, that won’t give them a strong sense of themselves.

Loading video...

Having rituals with your children can help make wonderful memories. For example, this past summer we made different pancakes every day. My daughters, Sea,12, and Teddy, 10, will remember the butter splattering, the milk all over the place, the dog eating the pancakes. That will be with them for the rest of their lives and I think that’s great!

– Kelly Bensimon

Leave a Reply

To comment, please fill in the fields below, enter your comment and select the Comment button.

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

View Comment


Posted at 5:31 PM on October 29, 2010  

it also won’t give them a strong sense of themselves if you make them feel guilty about ordering mac n cheese…

Share this comment at Share with Twitter


Posted at 11:52 AM on October 29, 2010  

Interesting advice from a woman with multiple nannies who spends her time jetting to Vegas and Miami on a weekly basis. But no worries – they can always remember their mom and her weirdness by watching re-runs of Real Housewives.

Share this comment at Share with Twitter