LAURA'S LOVE LIFE ADVICE: If Your Guy Cheats Once, Chances Are He'll Do It Again — Don't Take Him Back!

Wed, September 22, 2010 9:12pm EST by 12 Comments

Balthazar Getty is finally talking about his affair with Sienna Miller and professing his relief that wife Rosetta took him back. But she shouldn’t have — he’ll just do it again!

I’ve got some cold, hard truth for you, ladies. Although we wish it to be otherwise and think that he’ll change, a man who cheats once WILL do it again.

Take Balthazar Getty, for example. The self-proclaimed “family man” left his wife and four children in 2008 to cavort around Europe with Sienna Miller. She was young, blond, childless and loved going topless — the perfect combination for a man who had his mid-life crisis early at the age of 33. The relationship went sour, of course – because seriously? What relationship is going to work when one of the partners is already married!? – and Balthazar’s long-suffering wife, Rosetta, took him back.

“It was a very challenging time for everybody involved,” the 35-year-old former Brothers & Sisters star told the Harper’s Bazaar. “I loved and missed my family too much not to make it work,” he says. “Rosetta is understanding enough and spiritual enough to let us try.”

Ha. Read between the lines here, BFFs. “Understanding” means “I begged” and “spiritual enough”  means “I promised you could cut my you-know-what-off” if I ever do it again.” Just like the hidden meaning behind Balthazar’s statements, his words are nothing more than empty promises.

Cheating is an addiction, and very hard to beat completely. If your man has done it once, he WILL do it again. He won’t change – so it will have to be YOU that walks away.

Has YOUR man ever strayed, and did you take him back or kick him to the curb? Weigh in with your story below!


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