Why Sandra Bullock Should Take Jesse James Back — 'Because She'll Keep His Daughter Sunny Off The Stripper Pole' — Say Experts!

Thu, July 22, 2010 7:14pm EDT by 5 Comments
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Jesse James has been working his butt off to get back into the good graces of ex-wife Sandra Bullock – and whatever he’s doing might actually be working! We spoke to two experts who tell us they trust Sandra’s judgment, and that a reconciliation would be great for their kids!

The happiest (and luckiest) moment of Jesse James‘ life would be the day his ex-wife, Sandra Bullock, took him back. Guess what, BFFs? That day might come sooner  than later:  PopEater’s Rob Shuter says thatJesse is finally starting to win Sandra’s heart again! But is it smart for her to take him back?

We think Sandra should steer clear of Jesse and his cheating ways, but two relationship experts tell us that a second chance would be a good move for the exes.  “With all of the things that connect people, it doesn’t make sense to break up solely over infidelity,” relationship expert and psychiatrist DrKeith Ablow tells HollywoodLife.com. “When somebody strays for a singular reason, I don’t see that one reason as being enough to tear your fortune and your family apart and have kids with two bedrooms.”

Jesse was just awarded physical custody of his 6-year-old daughter Sunny, whose mother is  porn star Janine Lindemulder. However, Sunny has been very close to Sandra since her birth — the Oscar-winning actress basically raised her – which, to one expert, is enough of a reason for Sandra to take Jesse back.

“Jesse gave Sandra an entire life, a family, all she once wanted.There’s a huge foundation there and many enticing reasons to get back together,” radio host Cooper Lawrence tells us. “Frankly those kids need her! She’s the only stable factor in their lives, considering who their parents are.  She’s potentially the only thing that will keep Sunny off of stripper poles.”

Like Dr. Ablow, Cooper believes that cheating isn’t the only reason someone walks away from a marriage. “Infidelity is just a symptom of a larger problem, and it stems from one of two things: either there is an issue you are afraid to confront with your partner, and go elsewhere for comfort, or you DO address the issue and your partner says, ‘Tough sh*t, this is who I am.””

Either way, we just want Sandra to be happy…we’re not entirely sure if Jesse can provide the kind of happiness she needs after bringing her so much pain.

-Chloe Melas

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nene

Posted at 9:31 PM on July 23, 2010  

I dont like sandra anymore if this is true!

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Cindy

Posted at 1:22 AM on July 23, 2010  

I read a comment today, and agree, apparently, Sandra has put on the ‘Stupid Helmet’. Reminds me so much of Hilary Clinton, Elizabeth Edwards and so many other women who make a pathetic excuse to still spread their legs for a liar who is happy to share any STD’s he’s carrying with her. Surely, it has to stem from lack of self esteem. I think, Sandra has had little success with decent men and decent relationships. If she had, she wouldn’t be attracted to that thing.

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Cindy

Posted at 1:15 AM on July 23, 2010  

Jesse has some deep ingrained personal issues, which make him who he is. I would bet my house on the fact he WILL cheat again. It’s who he is…he’ll just be more careful next time ot to hook up with someone who might blab. As for Sandra, she’d deny it if it was right in her face. She’s too busy being funny and taking life lightly to be that serious.

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gene

Posted at 12:02 AM on July 23, 2010  

They were good together. I hope they can work it out.

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David

Posted at 12:53 AM on July 23, 2010  

If they were so good together why did he go out and repeatedly cheat on her? Gene, what is your comment based on?

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