Jake & Vienna's Explosive First Breakup Meeting – 'He Pulled Back His Fist & Lunged At Her!'

Sat, June 26, 2010 9:18am EST by 20 Comments

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The scene was ugly when The Bachelor Jake Pavelka laid eyes on Vienna during the filming of ABC’s Bachelor Breakup Special, claims a source.

Jake Pavelka,32,  tried to physically attack his former fiancee Vienna Girardi, 24, on June 23.  “He literally jumped out of his chair, pulled back his fist and lunged at her,” a source tells Star magazine (it’s the first time the exs have seen each other since the split).

“Vienna was confronting him, exposing all his lies,” continues the source. “He started screaming at her: ‘Shut up! Don’t belittle me! Don’t question me! Shut up!’ And all of a sudden [he lunged]. All of the executives were freaking out. They pulled him off of her and rushed them off to separate rooms.”

“The execs were screaming at him, ‘What the heck are you doing?’ And the camera people were all like, ‘Oh my god, we can’t use any of this,” adds the source. “Vienna [was] scared to death — She’s all alone out there in L.A. and she’s upset. She’s terrified.”

“She’s never seen him be that mean,” the source explains. “He’s been a jerk and belittled her before, like ‘You don’t know what you’re talking about.’ And she’s put up with it for the last four months, because she did everything she could to make the relationship work.”

“She obviously knows she made the right decision,” says the source. “Who knows how ABC will try to splice and dice this and turn it around for their golden boy, making Vienna look bad like they always do. But people have to know what he did!”

The breakup special is scheduled to air July 5th and the fact that there will be a special just reinforces our feeling at Hollywoodlife.com that the entire relationship was  a publicity stunt. If it wasn’t, would Jake and Vienna REALLY do a special about their breakup?

What do you think — is this whole Bachelor breakup a a ploy for ratings by  ABC for ratings and fame for Jake and Vienna.  Comment below!

- Lindsey DiMattina

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Danielle

Posted at 12:29 AM on July 4, 2010  

I think with each show and the added dramas each season, that ABC and the exective producers of this reality are having dillusions of grandeur!

They get the ratings, but its not because its the truth or real its the perception of bad things happening to poor innocent single people. May there was more than they are single that makes them single. Like possibly Jake being a manipulative fame seeking idiot. Or how about Jason the single dad that turned out to be a real CAD!

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Jessica

Posted at 4:04 PM on July 1, 2010  

I wouldn’t put it past them to do anything for publicity-I don’t blame Vienna for anything I know how excited her and her family were-from what I heard from a friend in Sanford- she was super happy at first and excited- her feelings were genuine and I am sad for how it turned out but happy for her in the sense that she landed something good out of it- being a Sanford girl myself-go Vienna!

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Kim

Posted at 12:22 PM on June 28, 2010  

We are surprised because? Vienna’s track record is not good. The way she pushed the other girls buttons in the house to make them mad is her game. She probably did the same to Jake. Jake should have known better and not picked the bad girl. He gets what he picked.

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Shura

Posted at 2:46 PM on June 26, 2010  

Anyone who watched the Bachelor got to know Vienna’s special relationship with life as a Daddy’s Girl and the center of her own universe. She demonstrated very little consciousness of the feelings of others. This victim drama now (with her $90k from Star) lacks credibliity.

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Lin

Posted at 2:36 PM on June 26, 2010  

Chelsea (not Chelse) was not against Jake during DWTS. They got along like brother and sister, and she SAID that.

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carol

Posted at 6:22 PM on June 26, 2010  

Lin, you better check again. the cast members have said that Jake and Chelsea did not have any chemistry and didn’t really get along. See latest quotes online. Sorry, Jake is a fake and a lunatic.

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Lin

Posted at 2:34 PM on June 26, 2010  

You people are ridiculous. There is absolutely NO evidence that Jake is gay. He wasn’t sexually attracted to Tenley, and Vienna’s greed and jealousy turned him off. Unless HE says he is gay or there is something to prove it, which there is not, I am not going to believe it.

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Lin

Posted at 2:32 PM on June 26, 2010  

Jake has not joined the cast of Bachelor Pad. He is only going to make an appearance on it.

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Lin

Posted at 2:31 PM on June 26, 2010  

This has already been proven to NOT be true!

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LittleMo

Posted at 1:39 PM on June 26, 2010  

I’m 54 years old with a little life experience behind me and I don’t believe anything Vienna says. If that woman said grass was green and sky was blue I’d look first. I think this will end up being more like she got in his face and he just didn’t back down and take it like she thought he should and but the BS she was trying ti shove down his throat right back.

I personally don’t think it was a control issue with Jake and Chelsea on DWTS. When teaching people something and they do it wrong, some you can say “that’s terrible,” “that’s awful,” “do it again,” etc. and sound like a drill sargeant and it doesn’t bother them. With others that puts their back up and they feel belittled. I think that was the issue with Jake and I think that was why he made the claim of feeing disrespected.

Remember none of those women on The Bachelor or Jake’s family knew each other before the show taped and none of them liked Vienna. When a completely un-acquainted group of people like that who both personally and geographically could not have known ecah other before this meeting, agree like that – and when it came to dislikeing vienna everyone agreed they disliked her – that should’ve told Jake something. If he didn’t want ot listen to the other women, he should’ve listened to his family’s first instinct.

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jezoebel

Posted at 12:59 PM on June 26, 2010  

Both of them are a waste of oxygen. They’re nothing more than famewhores whose 15 minutes are ticking away. I don’t understand why anyone goes on that show in the first place. Hardly any relationships last and only one has lead to marriage. Stick a fork in them; they’re dunzo.

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Yvette

Posted at 1:08 PM on June 25, 2010  

Without a doubt he’s a phony, fame whore who went on the Bachelor only to get noticed. Before the Bachelor he had been trying to become an actor. A lot of people knew he never intended to marry Vienna. She may have been part of that deception because she’s almost as hungry for fame and attention as he is. Plus, she’s trashy, stupid & has as much personality as a house plant. Neither of them are worthy or respect or trust. Interesting timing… Jake has now joined the cast of Bachelor Pad. Ladies, stay away…he’s uber-icky. I

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MelindaWarren

Posted at 9:41 AM on June 25, 2010  

If he really tried to hit a woman and ABC is still trying to push him on us that is disgusting! Either way he REALLY needs to go away…WHO CARES!!

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Allison

Posted at 4:07 AM on June 25, 2010  

This is so fake. The girl already has a new boyfriend. If there was footage of a possible fight, ABC would run with it. They would make crazy money from it. Lies, lies, and more lies.

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lindsey

Posted at 11:41 AM on June 25, 2010  

They are running it July 5!

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Louise

Posted at 3:43 AM on June 25, 2010  

Although I wasn’t rooting for Vienna during the show, I gotta say, I believe this article. Something is “off” about Jake and I haven’t been able to put my finger on it. He seems all about appearances and very insincere. I don’t think Chelse Hightower liked him during DWTS. Her body language clearly communicated that. Vienna, cut your losses and don’t look back. I have a feeling you escaped a potentially bad, bad future by dumping Jake. YOU GO GIRL!!!

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tinamarie

Posted at 9:14 AM on June 25, 2010  

I agree. Did you see the way he treated Chelse on DWTS. He was just downright controlling. I didn’t really like fim on the Bachelor and I really didn’t like him on DWTS. He seems like it always has to be his way or no way. I saw an interview the other night and Chelse was asked about the whole thing and she didn’t seem to sympathetic towards him and she said that she had liked Vienna. He’s just seems to weird.

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just my opinion

Posted at 9:28 PM on June 24, 2010  

oh yeah right, if they had something as juicy as real footage of a confrontation like that, nothing would stop them from airing it, But of course not before they promoted it like nuts to get as many viewers as possible. It is totally transparent by the ridiculous bias on the vapid tramps side, that this is totally made up. And if it isn’t, I won’t believe it till I see it, and if its true we will see it, wether they like this guy alot or not, money is the only thing that matters.

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gbtw

Posted at 11:38 PM on June 24, 2010  

i agree that money is the only thing that matters to them. they have to consider though whether the short term rating boost of a violent bachelor-gone-mad are worth the long term damage to their franchise. they were hoping to cash in on jake’s turmoil on ‘the bachelor pad’, etc., too, but not sure they can do all that with a guy that goes around raising his hand to women, and, if vienna is telling even one ounce of truth (i actually believe her, unlike most people), the guy will not be one they can hang their hat on. if even he was pretending the whole time, their dorky good-boy “pilot,” and had ulterior motives, it further degrades their already crashing credibility. with their track record of success (lack of), i’m not sure how they’re still managing to pull off their goal of convincing people that they’re going to help someone find true love, but that is their ultimate goal and some people are still believing in it. if people don’t believe in the possibility that true love can be found there, do they still watch? i know the answers seem obvious, but i don’t think they’re as simple when you analyze their viewer groups. then again, what do i know… in any case, long story short, the sensationalism and ratings of one episode of a freaking out violent bachelor might not be worth the long term damage to their product (what’s left of it). but i definitely agree that they only care about money.

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gbtw

Posted at 7:06 PM on June 24, 2010  

i don’t think these people or the producers have any clue of what’s real and what’s not anymore- just like with speidi. i think the lines have been blurred and produced for so long that people literally do not have a grip. that said, here is my best guess- vienna’s story is true, but she’s playing it to full advantage, adding in some tears, etc. jake lunging at her is all about the fact that he is gay and still hasn’t even accepted it himself, and, to top it all off, she’s hurting his chances at being taken seriously. he is truly out of control mad. any “stunt” aspect here is all at the hands of abc orchestrating and capitalizing on everything, but, not with knowing participation by these people. i doubt jake knew vienna was going to be flashed in his face, and i bet his reaction was 100% genuine. but, i’m just speculating for the fun of it… it could 100% be a hoax put on by all of them, or, just one big fat lie that didn’t even happen. i’m not going to lie and say i’m not interested.

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