Sandra and Her Secret Terror of Jesse — Why She Hasn't Yet Filed for Divorce

Tue, April 6, 2010 8:53am EDT by 27 Comments

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Even though Sandra Bullock is dead-set on divorcing Jesse James, a new report claims she hasn’t actually filed for divorce because she’s worried he’ll ‘spill her secrets.’

Almost three weeks to the day after news of Jesse James‘ cheating broke March 17, Sandra Bullock has yet to file for divorce from her husband, and a RadarOnline.com report claims the reason is that she’s terrified of his “angry” revenge and his “erratic” behavior. Ultimately, Sandra reportedly believes that Jesse will reveal secrets about her and their marriage in court filings.

“The main reason Sandra has not filed divorce papers yet is because she doesn’t want to trigger Jesse into attacking her publicly and revealing her secrets,” says a source. “Sandra is one of the most private actresses in Hollywood … the last thing she wants is Jesse out there talking about her and talking about her marriage.

Sandra is scared that Jesse “will try to harm her reputation,” according to the report. “His behavior is so erratic that she doesn’t want to send him over the edge.”

Jesse has been accused of having sexual relationships with four mistresses.

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liz

Posted at 10:42 AM on April 10, 2010  

I don’t believe Sandra is afraid of Jesse for one minute. I don’t know as none of us do what she plans to do. And should she divorce him, I would hope he keeps their marriage private or he is a bigger fool then he already is.

Also, and this is my opinion, I think the media should back off and leave them alone to sort out whatever it is they have to…………

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Chaz

Posted at 6:43 AM on April 8, 2010  

a guy who shagged four women whilst married to her is not going to harm her reputation – who’s the world gonna trust, huh? I’m with Sandra any day…

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sophie

Posted at 6:12 PM on April 7, 2010  

I bet you she has a lot of secrets that bad ass Jesse could threaten her with ( good for him) after all she is attracted to that type of man.
I bet you their sex life was pretty kinky seeing he is a rebel Nazi biker with a thing for hoes. I can actually Imagine Sandra and him role playing She’s dressed up as a imprisoned Jew and Jesse is the Commandant. Wow he may have some interesting tapes.
If I was Jesse Id screw the rehab and tell my F’ing wife to get back home or release some embarrassing information.
She better get her act together and capitulate to his wishes. After all she wanted a bad boy.

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getbacktowork

Posted at 7:51 PM on April 7, 2010  

are you for f’ing real? i’m shocked a woman would write such offensive things, not to mention, unrealistic and unbelievable. maybe you have to “capitulate” to your guy, but not all of us do that… have fun in your subordinate position, if that’s what floats your boat. but don’t assume the rest of us are in that position.

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sophie

Posted at 8:01 PM on April 7, 2010  

You should get your head out of you idealistic fantasy land. Yes, I am a woman and I know most women are not of practical thinking their thoughts are not realistic. They make decisions and do not account for consequences, They live in a dream world that is very biased to their own perspective. Just reading the comments on here proves my point. To put in in simpler terms, They expect not to fall, if they leap off a cliff. Sandra marrying Jesse James, the consequences where totally predictable.
Sandra needs to take responsibility and live with her decisions. She cannot have her cake and eat it too.

 
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mimi

Posted at 12:20 PM on April 8, 2010  

Revoltin comments

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mimi

Posted at 12:28 PM on April 8, 2010  

Revolting comments from Sophie….I had family in the Nazi-camps…terrible…..how could you say what you say …very disturbing.

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Misty

Posted at 12:44 AM on April 7, 2010  

Hmmmmmmm, this is all very interesting. If all of this is just idle, unfounded gossip, Sandra needs to come out of hiding really soon and speak up. The longer she stays silent, the more people are going to start assuming the worst about why she’s staying secluded. She has to know most of the world loves her, and only wants the best for her. And to me, even if there was a sex tape with her and jesse dressed as a Nazi, and feces on her lip, I still would like her and wish her well. What ever kind of sex she had with HER HUSBAND is none of our business. Whatever fetishes they have is none of our business. Key words…..NONE OF OUR BUSINESS. Sandra, from what I knowm has never exhibited the behaviors of a hateful white supremisist(? spelling). Her black co star in the blindside spoke very highly of her. She may be a fabulous actress, but if she had such extreme views on people of other races, those views would show through. People that are so “white power” can’t hide their views. Or they wouldn’t do stuff like tattooing such hateful things on their bodies. “WP” and swatstikas. Just discusting. I don’t see that in Sandra. If I’m wrong, then I will be disappointed in her for it. But no matter what she doesn’t deserve for her husband to tell the world her secrets. He is the one who cheated and treated the marriage that she valued so much, as though it had no value to him. He deserves everything bad that’s happening to him, he said that in his own words. What human gargage he is that he would use any so called secrets against her because she is refusing to reconcile. HOW FREAKING DARE HIM! All he’s doing is sealing his fate with this kind of childish, irrational behavior.

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ViVi

Posted at 5:33 PM on April 7, 2010  

I don’t think she is afraid of secrets coming out she is probably just plain afraid of him. Another reason may be she loves her husband. As any responsible adult should do in this situation is think before you make a rash decision. There are kids involved and although in today’s society everything is throw away. a marriage should be different. She waited a long time to marry and is not taking it lightly to just throw him away. I don’t think everyone should believe all these slutty women that may just be in this for there 15 minutes of fame. When ho’s can make a career out of just being slutty it pays to throw your name out even if it’s a line. We never get to here that side. Sandra has class and she is doing what is right for her. Non of us can really walk in another persons shoes.

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mimi

Posted at 8:40 PM on April 8, 2010  

yes it is all easy to say – but she does not need to come out – she does not owe the world anything…..just give her peace and let her deal with the s…, she will come on her own time….

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Wil

Posted at 9:18 PM on April 6, 2010  

I think Sandra is questioning how she could have been so blind that she didn’t really check him out before marrying him. She knew the surface information, but probably didn’t really do a background check, etc. I just hope she has had herself checked for STDs and he better hope he hasn’t given her anything, expecially anything life threatening!

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mimi

Posted at 12:30 PM on April 8, 2010  

well said will

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mimi

Posted at 1:57 PM on April 6, 2010  

NO you know what? ….I think sandra is so angry and upset with herself – how could I be so blind she says to herself, suddenly all the pieces falls into place….she has hit it in the back of her head,,,pushed it away when the thought came into her mind…..and she was out of town to work …she can see clear now, she was blinded……you know love makes blind…..

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Lori Ann

Posted at 11:28 AM on April 6, 2010  

Yea, Jesse had made many sex tapes, all his friends knew about them, but they were made around the time he was married to Karla. Way before he met Sandy. This is all coming out now so that his “friends and some employees” still have a lousy place to hang out and do their crap. None of them liked the fact that Sandy had any type of hold over Jesse. They always hated it when Jesse would leave for a few days or week to be with her. He NEVER did that for Karla or Janine. Pissed them off big time.

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mary

Posted at 11:22 AM on April 6, 2010  

NOOOOO..I don’t believe a word of that!!!! Secrets!? What secrets…. she was never married, she doesn’t have secret kids….. SO MAYBE SHE LIKES A SPANK NOW AND THEN ..WHO DOESN’T!! lol…………WE GOT YOUR BACK SANDRA..

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Catia

Posted at 12:32 PM on April 6, 2010  

No normal human being would ever like to be spanked. That is a severe psychological perversion. You need help.

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average joe

Posted at 5:38 PM on April 6, 2010  

News Flash Sweetie….there are no normal people. Even the act of judging someone and deciding for the populous what is normal and what is not is a form of social control. People who think they are normal are generally the MOST effed up of all!!!

People are naturally corrupt, they have to overcome their frailties to refine themselves. And those who succeed have no time to cast social judgements on others. Are you are a licensed therapist or psychiatrist qualified to decide what is normal and what is not? I doubt it…anyone who has taken Abnormal Psychology knows that spanking as a form of sexual play does not fall into the category of sever psychological perversion. A little kinky maybe, but not severe. I recommend some counseling so you can deal with your severe aversion to normal human sexuality…in short…don’t project your unchecked emotional issues onto other people. It’s just dumb really!

And if Sandra desires privacy, shame on all of us who read this crap and respond. Even if it is a “normal” thing to do.

 
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getbacktowork

Posted at 7:54 PM on April 7, 2010  

i like it! clapping, clapping, clapping… bravo! best tell off i’ve heard in a long time… hat is off.

 
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mimi

Posted at 8:35 PM on April 8, 2010  

okay you speak for yourself I assume……spanking no no no not for me….hate abuse…….and hitting ….it is NOT healthy love or sex it is sick…..

 
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buttons

Posted at 6:04 PM on April 7, 2010  

Christ, you would be no fun in the sack. Your probably as frigid as the antarctic.
Your certainly a judgmental sob though

 
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Rope

Posted at 9:49 AM on April 6, 2010  

Sandra deserves everything coming to her.
After all,she married this character,bed him and so on.
So Sandra,Good Luck with the Klunk!

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KC

Posted at 9:43 AM on April 6, 2010  

Yep Eddie – its probably that her views were the same as his regarding that redn*ck bigotted WP nonsense. He may be able to say she knew of his outfits and views and secretly told him she felt the same way. This would KILL her career cause the vast majority of folks in the world hate a bigot

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Eddie

Posted at 9:25 AM on April 6, 2010  

WOW!!! I mean I like Sandra but makes me think she knew this jerk was a Nazi fetishist. I mean her grandfather was a rocket scientist in Nuremburg during WWII and she was raised in Germany. . . could it be that she secretly wants to resurrect the party of the Fuhrer in Hollywood?? I’m just saying.

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sylvia

Posted at 9:42 AM on April 6, 2010  

Eddie …COME ON!! Don’t be an idiot!

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getbacktowork

Posted at 7:55 PM on April 7, 2010  

lol! short, and to the point!

 
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sam martin

Posted at 9:45 AM on April 6, 2010  

listen you you are a nut. get a life!!!! jesse is who he is she need to talk to him and not act like he is a nut!!!! maybe she is a real bitch and she want every one to think she is sweet??

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sandman

Posted at 9:48 AM on April 6, 2010  

he is a jesse james and what do you think he is a wild guy the ex strippers are all best friends and they want to hurt sandra. this is what its all about!!!!! we need to stay out of there lives. leave them alone.

 
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