Sandra's Heartbreaking Decision: Should She Stay With Jesse For Sunny's Sake?

Sat, March 27, 2010 5:23pm EDT by 22 Comments
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Do you think it’s worth sticking with Jesse just so Sandra can be a part of his daughter, Sunny’s, life?

We know Sandra Bullock is “devastated” over her husband Jesse James‘ infidelity, but if she divorces him, she’ll lose more than just her husband — she’ll also lose the step-daughter she’s come to love as her own. As much as she would love to become Sunny’s legal guardian, Los Angeles-based attorney Steve Cron tells HollywoodLife.com no judge will let that happen.

“[Sandra] has no right to custody of that child,” Steve Cron explains. “No matter how close the relationship, she’s not the mother. She’s not going to get custody of that child no matter what she tries to do.”

It was said March 23, that Sandra, 45, would seek custodial rights on the grounds that Jesse’s ex-wife, porn star Janine Lindemulder, is an unfit mother and Jesse, 40, is an adulterer. However, California law doesn’t automatically deem adulterers like Jesse unfit for parenting, as HollyScoop also found.

“They would have to determine if he is an unfit parent — and you have to show a lot, not just infidelity,” Cron says. “Then the court would determine the remedy. For example, does he need parenting classes, etc.? They do whatever they can to keep the child with the parent.”

So the question is: Should Sandra try to work things out with her cheating hubby, just so she can remain a part of Sunny’s life? It’s an emotional decision, one no one should ever have to make, and it certainly makes things a lot more complicated than they already are for Sandra.

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Yolanda

Posted at 2:13 AM on March 29, 2010  

Jesse James is HOT.
Sandra Bullock is not.
Jesse LOVES big-boobed kinky-inky girls.
Sandra is a flat-chested, middle-aged bore.
MIS-MATCH=FAIL!

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Jesse James

Posted at 4:34 PM on March 28, 2010  

Listen people She is MY daughter by blood not my bailing soon to be x wife. Your opinions are not welcome in this matter. Go back to your cheap boring live’s and screw off.

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mary

Posted at 10:44 PM on March 28, 2010  

I’D LIKE TO SAY I THINK JESSE DOES LOVE SANDRA AND SHE LOVES HIM..I HOPE YOU TWO CAN FIND YOUR WAY BACK TO EACH OTHER. I ALSO WOULD LIKE TO SAY TO SANDRA…DON’T LET THESE CHEAP UGLY SLUTS MAKE YOU LOOK LIKE THE VICTIM/FOOL EXPLOIT THEM FOR WHAT THEY ARE DON’T LET THEM MAKE MONEY OFF YOUR PAIN!!! AND JESSE AND EVEN TO TIGER WOODS…YOU GUYS HAVE TO LEARN THAT THESE TYPE OF WOMEN/ANIMALS ARE ONLY AFTER 1 THING AND THAT IS YOUR MONEY!! IS ALL THIS PAIN YOU HAVE BROUGHT TO YOUR FAMILIES REALLY WORTH 60 SECONDS OF SATISFACTION?? GIVE IT TIME AND DON’T STOP FIGHTING FO RYOUR LOVE.

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mimi

Posted at 10:27 AM on March 28, 2010  

sandra should NOT do anything ……? you lowlife filth…….

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mimi

Posted at 10:25 AM on March 28, 2010  

…and why should sandra do that,,,,,? explain?….where do you come from?

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Jesse

Posted at 4:22 PM on March 28, 2010  

I’m coming from a man’s prospective.She should do it like a good woman should. Sandra wanted a bad dirty racist man and she got one. Kinky isn’t it.

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XXXXX

Posted at 3:45 AM on March 28, 2010  

WTF? Get a life you loser

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a2zfgi

Posted at 10:55 PM on March 27, 2010  

It’s so sad to see Sandra go through this crap. I feel so sorry for her but if it was “JUST ONE” Jessie was with then they may be able to make a ‘go’ of it but now the fourth has exposed herself which proves he is a serial cheater. I like them both but Jessie is not my favorite person right now so Sandra should drop the bum pronto. As for the little girl, Sandra should seek other avenues of visitation or perhaps adoption, which would be a tremendous hill to climb but with Sandra’s money it may work out for her.

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santo

Posted at 10:38 PM on March 27, 2010  

Why wouldn’t she be able to see the daughter? That’s not explained. Jesse messed up & knows it so I don’t think he’d punish his daughter & Sandra by not letting them see each other.

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Bill

Posted at 10:37 PM on March 27, 2010  

It’s all Hollywood hype people, she has no right to the girl even if he, the father didn’t buy her the diamond ring she wanted.

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Mels

Posted at 11:12 PM on March 27, 2010  

She has every right to her step daughter! All that matters is that they love one another! As sick/animal acting as he is, I hope he may have somewhat of an ounce of humanity and let Sandra and his daughter remain close! They have developed a family bond and his daughter should not be punished for his sick animal behavior!

I just hope Sandra doesn’t sacrifice herself by staying with him because of her lover for her step daughter because the animal doesn’t know how to keep it in his pants! His behavior obviously expresses that he doesn’t care at all about Sandra and his own dauhter included!

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mimi

Posted at 10:18 AM on March 28, 2010  

well said mels ….that little girl should stay with sandra and NOT with the father and his lifestyle, what do you think will happen to her = tattoes and more tattoes, drugs and dirty men, no no no let sandra take over, if the girl wants it……..

 
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mimi

Posted at 10:23 AM on March 28, 2010  

diamond ring…..? nonsens!…and you better believe sandra can have the girl……(she should not be in the fathers house…..)

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Roadwork

Posted at 8:51 PM on March 27, 2010  

What are you insane its her Step Daughter people, its life. The suggestion is ridiculous

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mimi

Posted at 8:55 PM on March 27, 2010  

hej roadwork and why is this ridiculous …..the girl would be better off , with a father like that and a mother just out of prison?……no no think again roadwork

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mimi

Posted at 8:57 PM on March 27, 2010  

…..and it is NOT life……what planet are you coming from

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mimi

Posted at 8:28 PM on March 27, 2010  

sorry i know adopt with 1 d……

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mimi

Posted at 8:27 PM on March 27, 2010  

sandra should addopt this little girl if possible, to stay with the father is NOT a good place with all the hookers….go for it if you can sandra, – and I am sure the mother to the little girl would love that…..mimi

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michelle

Posted at 8:13 PM on March 27, 2010  

Are you kidding me, James should let Sandra see his daughter anytime. She has been a big part of this girls life. Sandra is the stone in his kids life. I hope she finds the strength to go forward without James because he does not deserve her, You are one of my best actors Sandra, when the time is right go forward and I hope the press will leave you alone until you are ready. Everyone has a job and I cannot believe how actors are followed to the point its all about money. Sick!!!! Leave her grieve and go forward people.

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joe james

Posted at 6:49 PM on March 27, 2010  

She shoulds stay

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sophia

Posted at 6:22 PM on March 27, 2010  

If she decides to stay it should be because she wants to make things work with Jessie.Halle Berry was in this same situation with Eric Benet and when she left Eric wouldn’t let her continue the relationship with his daughter.I think Sandra would be a fool to just stay for sunny.

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Milo

Posted at 6:07 PM on March 27, 2010  

She may have hooked up with some human garbage.
Time to clean house.

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