Hey, Sandra! An Image Expert Urges You To Come Out Of Hiding & Show Your Face!

Wed, March 24, 2010 9:00pm EDT by 16 Comments
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We know it will be hard, but a media consultant says you need to at least try to live your everyday life as usual

We cannot even begin to imagine the humiliation and devastation Sandra Bullock must feel after learning along with the rest of the world that her husband, Jesse James, was cheating with a stripper in a magazine article. But Los Angeles-based image expert Michael Sands tells HollywoodLife.com although it will be really hard, the actress should come out of hiding and carry on with her usual daily activities.

“Sandra should just go out and do what she normally does,” Sands says, noting the 45-year-old Oscar winner should be applauded for doing just that by taking a commercial airplane from Austin, Texas to Los Angeles March 23. “She doesn’t need to address any of the issues, but maybe she should take the kids to school, you know? Take the garbage out. She should just keep doing what she’s done all along.”

Since news of her husband’s sex scandal broke March 18, Sandra’s kept a low profile, camping out at her Austin home and cancelling both her London and Berlin The Blind Side premieres — which Sands thinks is a wise move.

“Sandra needs time to compose herself. As far as doing premieres and stuff, I don’t think anyone would be into that,” he says. “It’s not a happy time for her. I wouldn’t have her there. She has to walk the red carpet and that’s just going to open up the wounds.”

Even though we’re dying to hear Sandra’s side of the story, Sands says under no circumstances should she speak to the press right now.

“She has said nothing and it’s probably one of the smartest moves she could make,” he says, explaining, “If she did come out, what’s she going to look like? It’s a lose, lose. Less is best. Sandra will come out a real winner with no dirt on her skirt. You have to commend her for how she’s handling it.”

Sandra we think you’re a a total class act — and you have NOTHING to be ashamed about! Re-start living your life – and show Jesse James that nothing he does can ruin you!

Read more on the upsetting and tragic Jesse James’ cheating scandal:

  1. Hey BFFs — What A Burn! Watch Sandra Bullock Gush Over Jesse James!
  2. Shock! Sandra Bullock Moves Out! Is Her Marriage Over?
  3. Does Jesse James Have a Type … Tattooed? And Is Ink-Free Sandra The Odd Woman Out?
  4. EXCLUSIVE! The Day After The Oscars, Jesse James’ Alleged Mistress Complained About A Lack Of Sex
  5. Sandra Bullock Heartbroken! Will She Still Fight For Jesse James To Win Custody Of His Little Girl?
  6. Jesse James Made Shocking Accusations of Violence Against His Ex-Wife!

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Yolanda

Posted at 1:50 AM on March 29, 2010  

Jesse James is hot!
Sandra is not.
It’s as simple as that.

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Misty

Posted at 7:35 PM on March 27, 2010  

I just want to say I LOVE SANDRA BULLOCK! She has got to be one of the most beautiful women in the world, and one of the classiest. And all though we all know that, she ain’t feeling it right now. Her man just made her feel like she has no value and no worth by his trashy, selfish, dirty actions. She will survive this, but she’s gonna hurt for a VERY long time. And the truth is if she takes the trash out, so low class papparazi will be in her face asking her questions she isn’t prepared to answer, nor does she owe anyone any answers. I have experinced what she is going through, minus the world watching it go down. I wish I could hug her, and cry with her, and tell her to make the choices that SHE can live with at the end of the day. Because no matter what she chooses, people need to remember to butt out, because only she has to live with those choices.

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Misty

Posted at 7:37 PM on March 27, 2010  

I meant “some low class papparazi”, not “so low”

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lolitahaze

Posted at 10:48 AM on March 26, 2010  

yeah, sorry. i don’t agree. take out the garbage? (that would require divorcing JJ), take his kids to school?

i don’t think so. doing things for herself, sure. but start doing things that help him? hell no.

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Suzee

Posted at 10:04 AM on March 25, 2010  

Sandra should do what’s right for her. I’ve been through the same thing & it was the worse possible pain I’ve ever endured. I didn’t want to show myself in public for a very long time because it hurt so much & I was too humiliated. Therefore; Sandra I feel for you & take your time taking care of your business. You don’t owe anyone anything…take care of you first!

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lolitahaze

Posted at 10:49 AM on March 26, 2010  

this is an excellent comment.

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Misty

Posted at 7:38 PM on March 27, 2010  

I agree! Excellent comment! Short, simple, yet to the point!

 
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Karen

Posted at 1:14 AM on March 25, 2010  

Sandra is a class act. He must be nuts!

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omg

Posted at 11:59 PM on March 24, 2010  

I dont care about this !!! My boyfriend thinks the same with me. He is eight years older than me, lol. We met online at~Agelessdate.com ~a nice place for younger women seeking older men, or older women seeking younger men, to interact with each other. Maybe you wanna check it out or tell your friends

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YC

Posted at 10:12 PM on March 24, 2010  

Oh my god! Every headline about Sandra Bullock on this site has an exclamation mark! This one has two! Please make it stop! This is like one of those ‘celeb’ sites generated from India! If you don’t believe me, have a look through Google News! Honest!!!!!!!!!

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MUCKRAKER

Posted at 5:15 PM on March 26, 2010  

Where is your enthusiasm!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Speedbeetle

Posted at 10:01 PM on March 24, 2010  

yellow roses…my fav…

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John Rice

Posted at 9:36 PM on March 24, 2010  

Sandra has to play the same game as Jesse. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. Sandra should dress real skanky, get some tats and start touring the biker bars in Texas having lots of promiscuous kinky sex with BOTH men and women. She should have the paparazzi follower her everywhere to document her whoring ways. That will teach Jesse

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superbrat

Posted at 4:53 PM on March 25, 2010  

John Rice, I strongly disagree with you. Sandra should not and will not go down the flthy sewer and be like Jesse whose abhorrent scandalous behavior have her hurt badly! That is not a revenge but a genuinley self-destructive course you are espousing. She will only hurt herself furhter beyond repair is she does what you are proposing. Where are you getting this juvenile and self-destruct kind of views anyway?

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John Rice

Posted at 4:29 PM on March 28, 2010  

Ok.. How bout you then wanna go down the hot filthy sewer with me baby. Let’s get self destructive.

 
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Ray

Posted at 9:24 PM on March 24, 2010  

Sad thing for a nice lady

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