Hey, Sandra! An Image Expert Urges You To Come Out Of Hiding & Show Your Face!

Wed, March 24, 2010 9:00pm EDT by 16 Comments
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We know it will be hard, but a media consultant says you need to at least try to live your everyday life as usual

We cannot even begin to imagine the humiliation and devastation Sandra Bullock must feel after learning along with the rest of the world that her husband, Jesse James, was cheating with a stripper in a magazine article. But Los Angeles-based image expert Michael Sands tells HollywoodLife.com although it will be really hard, the actress should come out of hiding and carry on with her usual daily activities.

“Sandra should just go out and do what she normally does,” Sands says, noting the 45-year-old Oscar winner should be applauded for doing just that by taking a commercial airplane from Austin, Texas to Los Angeles March 23. “She doesn’t need to address any of the issues, but maybe she should take the kids to school, you know? Take the garbage out. She should just keep doing what she’s done all along.”

Since news of her husband’s sex scandal broke March 18, Sandra’s kept a low profile, camping out at her Austin home and cancelling both her London and Berlin The Blind Side premieres — which Sands thinks is a wise move.

“Sandra needs time to compose herself. As far as doing premieres and stuff, I don’t think anyone would be into that,” he says. “It’s not a happy time for her. I wouldn’t have her there. She has to walk the red carpet and that’s just going to open up the wounds.”

Even though we’re dying to hear Sandra’s side of the story, Sands says under no circumstances should she speak to the press right now.

“She has said nothing and it’s probably one of the smartest moves she could make,” he says, explaining, “If she did come out, what’s she going to look like? It’s a lose, lose. Less is best. Sandra will come out a real winner with no dirt on her skirt. You have to commend her for how she’s handling it.”

Sandra we think you’re a a total class act — and you have NOTHING to be ashamed about! Re-start living your life – and show Jesse James that nothing he does can ruin you!

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