How Do These Guys Get Away With Cheating? Clues You Can Use To Find Out If Your Man Is Straying!

Wed, March 24, 2010 3:51pm EDT by 3 Comments
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How do these celeb husbands and boyfriends find the time to cheat on their gorgeous girls? They use fake names and have more than one cell phone!

What do Tiger Woods, Jesse James, and Reggie Bush all have in common? They’ve been linked to beautiful, smart, loyal women … and cheated on them! But, why weren’t they getting caught sooner?

Because they knew how to cover up their tracks! And sorry to tell you, but so might your guy. We spoke with a security expert and two relationship experts who want you to know the tricks guys use when they cheat!

Used a different name: As we know from reports, Tiger used an assumed name at the Island Hotel in Newport Beach, Ca. to arrange his tryst with second alleged mistress Jaimee Grubbs — Mr. and Mrs. Bell, which one would assume emanated from his childhood buddy Bryon Bell. Tiger most likely didn’t use his name for hotels and restaurants. “Tiger has any amount of people who can make reservations for him under a different name. He was even registered at the hospital after his accident under a different name,” says John Mark, a security expert and owner of Spy Tech Inc.

Pick a spouse that travels or allows you to travel for work: Sandra and Kim both travel and so do Reggie and Tiger! “They choose mates who are clueless because of geographic and/or emotional distance,” says relationship expert Dr. Gilda Carle. “Their self-esteem is low, and their need to continue to prove their masculinity is great. I call these cheaters “baby men.”

Tell their mistresses their marriages are over: Tiger told two of his mistresses that his marriage to Elin was to “boost his public image.” Jesse used the same line on Michelle “Bombshell” McGee telling her his marriage to Sandra was “a sham.” “Some people with sex addiction may do this, and it’s a form of manipulation to get what they want,” says relationship expert Amy Levine.

Get a cheating enabler: Reggie always goes to clubs with friends and a body guard. Tiger has his entourage especially Byron, and Jesse has his crew of motorcycle buddies. “They have friends that are players, cheaters,” says Dr. David Eigen. “I believe everyone knows inside when a spouse is cheating. Something is missing or not quite right.

Multiple cell phones: Jaimie also told Us Weekly that Tiger changed his cell phone four times during the time they knew each other: “He always texted or called with a new number.” Tiger wouldn’t be so bold to use his own cell phone: “Tiger more than likely has several several cell phones. They are probably registered under different names. His entourage could easily buy him phones and allow him to use it,” dishes John. John also tells us that he probably didn’t put the women under their own names in his phone.

Pay for things in cash or through other people: According to TMZ, he used Bryon Bell, president of Tiger Woods Design, to buy first alleged mistress Rachel Uchitel’s plane ticket to Australia, where he was playing, and to pay for her hotel room there as well. “If Tiger was going to be staying at a hotel or our with one of his girls he would definitely use cash, or someone else’s credit card so there’s no paper trail,” says John. John tells us that it would make sense that Tiger would borrow someone else’s car when he went to visit his mistresses.

Never use your own car/motorcycle to ferry around your mistresses: Jaimie Grubbs tells Us that Tiger would use a limo to drop her and her playmates at their hotel. John tells us that Tiger was probably using different cars other than his own when he went to visit his mistresses. Jaimie Grubbs tells Us that Tiger would use a limo to drop her and her playmates at their hotel.