Sandra Get Out Of Hiding, Just Because Your Hubby Cheated On You, You Don't Have To Be Embarrassed- Here's How!

Tue, March 23, 2010 3:55pm EST by 4 Comments
Getty Images

Getty Images

How would you handle going through a publicly humiliating affair? Would you forgive your lying, cheating husband?

After facing public humiliation by husband Jesse James, Sandra Bullock has completely disappeared! Sandra has cancelled both her London and Berlin premieres of The Blindside and has completely fallen off the radar. We really want Sandra to get heal and get better, so we asked relationship coach Dr. Doris Jeanette what the Best Actress winner needs to do to get back up on her feet.

First off, stop feeling humiliated! And while that may seem hard, we are ALL on your side, Sandra! According to Dr. Jeanette, “He’s done what he did and that’s on him. What does [Sandra] have to be embarrassed about?” Dr. Jeanette explains, “This is a case where women react, rather than having a sense of self that’s strong enough to see them through.” Sandra’s reaction was to go into hiding, but we want her to find the strength to face her scheming husband!

But in order to gain her inner strength, “[Sandra] has to take responsibility for not being aware, it’s not all one sided,” the relationship coach explains, “[Sandra] should ask herself, ‘What do I need to be doing differently so that I’m strong enough to be okay with or without [Jesse].”

While a divorce seems like the probable path, Dr. Jeanette says Sandra, 45, has got to forgive Jesse, 40, at some point- for her own sake!

“For her own sanity [Sandra] must forgive,” Dr. Jeanette explains, “[It] doesn’t mean you stay with him, however you don’t get rid of him because of a knee jerk reaction.”

We think Sandra should take all the time she needs to heal and re-group. Stay strong Sandy!

Leave a Reply

To comment, please fill in the fields below, enter your comment and select the Comment button.

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

View Comment

blake

Posted at 11:58 PM on March 23, 2010  

The only good thing that has come out of this is the downfall parody video where Hitler finds out that Jesse James cheated on Sandra Bullock

 Reply
Share this comment at Share with Twitter

Alicia

Posted at 11:24 PM on March 23, 2010  

Leave Sandra alone. She’s gone through enough already.

 Reply
Share this comment at Share with Twitter

disco

Posted at 5:46 PM on March 23, 2010  

A little heavy on the dating advice today aren’t we HL? Time heals all wounds.

 Reply
Share this comment at Share with Twitter

Village

Posted at 5:33 PM on March 23, 2010  

Nobody wants an audience when they are crying. Her heart is broken. She had such faith in him, no matter how misplaced, and it has to hurt like hell.

Plus the elephant in the living room, he could have given her a STD. That’s the real danger of husbands screwing around, especially with high risk women like strippers and porn participants. He endangered her life, unbeknown to her. To me, that’s the real deal breaker.

 Reply
Share this comment at Share with Twitter