Why Would Jesse Cheat On Sandra? An Expert Weighs In!

Wed, March 17, 2010 6:13pm EST by 4 Comments


Do you think Jesse cheated because he felt emasculated or jealous of Sandra’s major success?

Talk about being blind-sided. Mere weeks after winning the Best Actress Oscar for her role in The Blind Side, a self-professed model named Michelle ‘Bombshell’ McGee confessed to In Touch weekly that she had a five-month affair with Sandra Bullock’s husband Jesse James – and while Sandra was shooting her award-worthy flick, no less! Now, an expert explains to HollywoodLife.com why Jesse would do such a horrible thing to the woman he promised to love for the rest of his life.

“He may have felt emasculated about her being this super-famous, award-winning actress. It was his unconscious way of hurting her because he’s jealous of her,” Dr. Rhonda Findling, psychotherapist and author of Don’t Call That Guy, A Survival Guide To Letting Go, told HollywoodLife.com March 17.

Since getting married on July 16, 2005, Sandra, 45, has unabashedly supported 40-year-old Jesse in all of his business endeavors (including his famous bike shop West Coast Choppers) and has acted as surrogate mom to his three children. In fact, Sandra is even leading the fight for Jesse to obtain custody of his six-year-old daughter, Sunny. Unfortunately, Jesse did not reciprocate Sandra’s support.

“Some people have feelings of envy and aggression and it can be more powerful than love,” Dr. Findling explained, adding, “Just because you’re attracted to a person, that doesn’t mean you have to act it out. If it’s not working, then get a divorce.”

What do you think it was distance or jealousy that caused problems for Sandra and Jesse?

For More On The Sandra Bullock & Jesse James Cheating Scandal:

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Patricia Tuttle

Posted at 2:58 PM on March 18, 2010  

To be honest, I had never heard of Jesse James (Sandra’s hubby) til he appeared with her at the Emmy’s & Acadamy Awards. I have followed Sandra’s career, and she’s to talented & intelligent for a rough ass jazzed up car mechanic who should be castrated as far as I am concerned. Unfortunately, men are so enraptored over their own ego’s & cannot stand to be over shadowed with a wife who’s light years above JJ…..I still can’t get over all those tatoos of his…..In another 24 years or so, we sure are going to have a bunch of old wrinkly people with sagging tats….It is a shame that men are such gads (being nice) I married 3 times before I found my soul mate, but even through 25 years, I know he wasn’t faithful….you can trust these bastards…..What JJ should be ashamed up is his daughter that Sandra has raised…….this is going to be the heart breaker of it all….There are few Jeff Bridges & I do not think Sandra will ever marry again. No man out there has the balls to be Mr Sandra Bullock……YOU GO GIRL, KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND DONT’ LOOK BACK TO TRASH….WE LOVE YOU, GIRL……GRANNY OF TX

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Posted at 8:10 PM on March 17, 2010  

This is Deja Vu all over again.Eric Bennet did the same thing to Halle Berry and it came out ofter she won her Oscar.I feel bad for Sandra,I don’t know why she married Jessie,she is so not his type.Look at his ex-wife the porn star and now this Lady all covered in tattoo’s,and you get the picture.I think she should leave him……..

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Posted at 8:08 PM on March 17, 2010  

Why are you assuming he cheated? We have not heard anything from the Sandra or Jesse. This couldhave been set up by his ex-wife (and porn star) who was angry over losing custody to them. Don’t make such quick judgements.

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Posted at 3:59 PM on March 20, 2010  

Fooled you, Did you not here JJ’s confession! He came clean finally. Please know what you’re talking about before you write!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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