Burn! Tenley Molzhan Says Jake Pavelka 'Likes That Physical Level Taken Care Of First!'

Wed, March 3, 2010 9:22am EDT by 141 Comments
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Tenley Molzhan is hitting back at Jake PavelkaThe Bachelor who broke her heart — by saying that what Jake was really just after sex with his fianceé Vienna Girardi!

Tenley went on Ellen and explained to host Ellen Degeneres: “I’m a very playful person and I don’t know that Jake got to see me in all those moments because it was so important to … build that emotional foundation first. But we saw that Jake likes that physical level taken care of first … so it’s ok.”

Wow Tenley! We didn’t know you had that kind of bite in you, girl!

Tenley opens up to Ellen about their “missing connection”  She says, “Jake even told me we had such an incredible connection. When he kissed me he felt like he was riding on a treadmill. There were so many moments that you didn’t even see that were so magical and alive and exciting and fun. I don’t know we kissed a lot. I love kissing.”

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VIVIAN

Posted at 11:40 AM on March 6, 2010  

TO ME THE SHOW IS PhONOGRAPHY. IT STARTED OU OKAY BUT HAS BECOME JUNK. HE MUST BE A VERY SHORT OR SHE IS A LARGE PERSON BECAuse BEAUSE SHE DWARFS HIM.IT IS ALL SCRIPTED.

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Tara

Posted at 11:12 AM on March 6, 2010  

Tenley, get over it! In any relationship; the physical is important. It’s not the foundation, but awfully important. He found you emotionally stimulating, but physically boring! Vienna is alive and exciting! She just does it for him!

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yelley

Posted at 6:58 AM on March 6, 2010  

It’s not only laughable, but the comments some of you are writing are ridiculous. I bet the majority of you who are writing that Vienna won because she had sex with Jake have done the same thing at some point in your own life, so STOP trying to be so holier than thou. It’s ludicrous for any of you HATERS to think we believe that you didn’t have sex with your spouse BEFORE you got married to him or her. You need to take your heads out of the sand and realize that today, whether you like it or not, young people are going to have sex BEFORE they get married. Haven’t any of you seen the girls as young as 13 yrs old on many TV Shows admitting that they have ORAL SEX with as many as 10 boys a night at Rainbow Parties?? (IF you don’t know what a Rainbow Party is, it’s when the girls at the party have Oral sex with the boys and the winner is the boy who has the most different colors of lipstick on his Penis!) It’s disgusting to me and I don’t condone it, but this is what’s happening everywhere! EVEN IN YOUR NEIGHBORHOODS, maybe even in your family! So calling Vienna a whore for having sex with Jake prior to marrying him is a JOKE!! Especially since you or someone in your family has probably had sex BEFORE marriage too. If so, what does that make you?? Go look in the mirror people before you BASH someone else! (Sorry if this was posted twice, I didn’t see it, so I wasn’t sure if it went through the first time).

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yelley

Posted at 8:27 AM on March 6, 2010  

Sorry for duplicate.

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Jaloney

Posted at 11:56 PM on March 5, 2010  

Tenley followed Ali’s clique to scare Jake away from Vienna which showed Ms. Sweet is really all fake and not nice, like Ali.
I won’t watch Ali this year. She is a mean-spirited, hateful, clique forming Betch in true high school style. I don’t want to watch girls on the Bachelorette but women. ALI and TENLEY were both still in high school mode.

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yelley

Posted at 8:06 AM on March 6, 2010  

You are soooo right!!

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Lindchen

Posted at 2:46 PM on March 5, 2010  

this is NEVER going to work out, he doesn’t love her, she is a cheap lay for him, no more, no less….why would any young, self respecting woman parade herself in such a cheap show, it borders on PORN, where is their self esteem? I hope I would never be on a flight where he’s the pilot, I would not trust the girly girl whuzz thinking he’s a real man…..I’d get the hell off the plane. American Airlines should fire him…..he has no character, he is a self absorbing bimbo, as is she……

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michelle

Posted at 1:03 PM on March 5, 2010  

it’s realy bad when vienna has to use sex to get a man can’t she do it the right way like every one else. but she alreay proved that she can’t that’s how she got jake

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jess

Posted at 12:21 PM on March 5, 2010  

I think both women were absurd and I think ABC should pair Jake and other bachelor’s with women their own age. (Vienna is 9 years younger!) … what happens when he dates women his own age that actually have convictions and don’t just giggle and say things like “I love to dance and laugh, and laugh while I dance, and dance while I laugh” … the level of narcissism is beyond me …

still I’m happy he picked the whore.

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Connie

Posted at 10:57 AM on March 5, 2010  

Seriously, There is nothing wrong with what Tenley said. It was obvious when Jake said physical to her it meant that. Come on quit bashing Tenley, she is speaking the truth. Also Vienna was all about Sex!

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Mepa

Posted at 10:24 AM on March 5, 2010  

Jake picked an ugly horse face girl who wanted to get engaged, no matter who the bachelor was. Of course sex had a lot to do with it. She played her sex cards and won.

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Jaloney

Posted at 11:59 PM on March 5, 2010  

ALI was the ugly mean spirtied horse mouth. Tenley followed the lets dig on Vienna clique but she had nothing but look at me I am a good girl fake one to offer. NO PERSONALITY.
Physical attraction between people is real. Tenley looked like Jake’s sister. Opposites so often attract. Quit dishing just because you did not like the outcome.
P.S. ALI acted like a real high school, clique forming, gang upper becth. I won’t being watching her season. Vienna was the one thing the other women weren’t: REAL.

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NYsquirels

Posted at 8:53 AM on March 7, 2010  

Jaloney I agree with you 100%.

 
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anjela

Posted at 8:49 AM on March 5, 2010  

I think people are people. I didn’t like the way Jake’s family were with Vienna. The past is the past. The mother going on and on about her daughter-in-laws having to get along- not the best criteria for life. As I mentioned people are people. I would want and be happy just to have a daughter-in-law who made a son happy not the entire family.That’s asking a lot.
He is a pilkot not a brain surgeon so maybe in Vienna he found someone with whom he could just be himself and relax and I do think the constant wailing of the ex husband coupled with that rather long ‘dance’ did Tenley in. I did like her parents more than Vienna’s father.Did I totally miss Vienna’s mother? I honestly was expecting Vienna to come from a mansion and land when she said she was spoiled by her father.
Anyway Tenley would be difficult to be with after a while- and she needs lots more time to be over the ex.
I wish them all the best of luck.

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GEORGE STEVENS

Posted at 10:27 AM on March 5, 2010  

I agree 100 per cent with you comments!!! It was my thinking as well

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Eve

Posted at 7:16 AM on March 5, 2010  

Nobody is as nice all the time as Tenley pretended to be and she has now shown her true colors and immaturity. The “physical” part of a relationship is important and she knows that since she gave in to show Jake how much she cared. If she was truly mature, she wouldn’t have only knowing him such a short time. Now what does she have besides a used stamp on her head. I think Vienna is thrilled with beating all the other girls more than actually having Jake.

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Terry

Posted at 7:59 PM on March 4, 2010  

WOW Tenley played the SEX card.

Too Bad, she could have learned a valuable lesson.

Jake is a Type 2 Shy, quiet type.

Vienna is a Type 3 very aggressive, go getter, focused.

Tenley is a Type 1 bubbly,Fun,always positive now matter what.

Type 2 NEED type 3 because they are matched opposites. The missing part was that Tenley is NOT a type 3. It’s pretty obvious once you know the 4 types.

Tenley if you’re reading this please go buy the book “It’s Just My Nature” by Carol Tuttle.

If never read the book, you will just think guys are only trying to get into your pants. AH WRONG!

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PsychicNahu

Posted at 5:11 PM on March 4, 2010  

What Tenley is trying to say here is that Jake is a hypocrite. He came on the show with a “purpose to find a partner for life” not a just a sexual fling. Deep relationship requires a strong emotional foundation. That’s what Tenley focused on while Jake only cared about sex. If you would like to read about my psychic predictions, click on the following link:

http://nahupsi.wordpress.com/2010/03/02/after-the-bachelor-finale-what-started-out-with-fire-and-heat-will-die-down-to-smoke-and-mirrors/

AFTER THE BACHELOR FINALE: What started out with fire and heat will die down to smoke and mirrors!

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AnnieGirl

Posted at 4:14 PM on March 4, 2010  

Okay. All you haters out there, get over it. Jake chose Vienna. End of story. I’m haPPY Jake picked Vienna. I wanted them together in the first place. Yeah,Vienna kind of acted snooty and cocky. But she was there for Jake. I loved Vienna the most. But I also thought that Tenley was cool too. But not right for Jake. No one liked Vienna. But she powered through that. And that shows that she was in it to win it. She wanted Jake from the begining. Tenly was right out of line. Even so shes still a nice girl. I wanted Tenley to be the next Bachleorette. But Ali was. She shouldnt be. For all of you who cant she the love in Jake and Vienna’s eyes your blind. TEAM VIENNA

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ron

Posted at 6:02 PM on March 4, 2010  

love is blind, and i guess so are you!

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getbacktowork

Posted at 6:44 PM on March 4, 2010  

i agree! all these ali fans and vienna bashers are straight out of “mean girls”! it’s ridiculous.

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Pepper

Posted at 1:34 PM on March 5, 2010  

I agree, I liked Vienna the best too!

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Mildred

Posted at 3:44 PM on March 4, 2010  

Tenley if you really loved Jake the way you said, then all you would want for him is to be happy. I wanted him to choose you as well but it didn’t happen so you have to move on, bashing him and saying things about him and Vienna aren’t going to help matters. In the end you are only making yourself miserable. You are a beautiful girl and you will find love when the time is right. Learn from your experience and move forward one day at a time. Good luck to you.

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sandy beach

Posted at 3:29 PM on March 4, 2010  

oh boo hoo tenley, Jake picked the girl he loved the most and it wasn’t you. look at the way Jake and Vienna are when they are around each other you can see the love in his eyes. maybe she doesnt have the best hairdo or the sexiest clothes, but Jake said he was looking for his best friend and not the prettiest one there. Jake found what he was looking for with Vienna. They dont need our approval its their life not ours. To bash Vienna because of how she looks is low. I think Tenley is looking for another reality show or a job like Melissa and Jillian got. To claim she loved Jake so much and then bash him because he didnt pick her make me even more sure that Jake picked the right one. Maybe Tenley should grow up and act like a woman instead of a poor loser. She should look for why her first husband had to go to someone else for what he needed and think about that. Maybe like Jake he needs both physical as well as emotional fufillment from somone who ascts like a womas not a little girl who seems to feel very sorry for herself and whines all the time about her broken marriage. People have their own problems and you need to stop whinning about your and realize life goes on.

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getbacktowork

Posted at 3:36 PM on March 4, 2010  

okay, okay, calm down! tenley was out of line, but i guess we just saw that she’s not perfect after all. she had her heart broken, so let’s give her a little time to accept it all. it’s not really fair to throw her other marriage in her face, either. she’s doing her best just like the rest of us… but yes, she was out of line cutting jake, and we all expected more of her.

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yelley

Posted at 6:50 AM on March 6, 2010  

My thoughts exactly Sandy. It’s not only laughable, but the comments some of you are writing are ridiculous. I bet the majority of you who are writing that Vienna won because she had sex with Jake have done the same thing at some point in your own life, so STOP trying to be so holier than thou. It’s ludicrous for any of you HATERS to think we believe that you didn’t have sex with your spouse BEFORE you got married to him or her. You need to take your heads out of the sand and realize that today, whether you like it or not, young people are going to have sex BEFORE they get married. Haven’t any of you seen the girls as young as 13 yrs old on many TV Shows admitting that they have ORAL SEX with as many as 10 boys a night at Rainbow Parties?? (IF you don’t know what a Rainbow Party is, it’s when the girls at the party have Oral sex with the boys and the winner is the boy who has the most different colors of lipstick on his Penis!) It’s disgusting to me and I don’t condone it, but this is whAt’s happening everywhere! EVEN IN YOUR NEIGHBORHOODS, maybe even in your family! So calling Vienna a whore for having sex with Jake prior to marrying him is a JOKE!! Especially since you or someone in your family has probably had sex BEFORE marriage too. If so, what does that make you?? Go look in the mirror people before you BASH someone else!

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Fran

Posted at 8:19 AM on March 6, 2010  

I agree totally

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Bubbles

Posted at 8:04 AM on March 7, 2010  

My thoughts exactly!

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V. Cecil

Posted at 3:08 PM on March 4, 2010  

Jake was “definitely” the classiet and most gentlemanly guy ever on The Bachelor. He always knew the kind thing to say, even though you knew he really wasn’t into a girl.
Even when the girl would say something lame, he would still be polite. Hats off to his mother and father for raising such an outstanding young man. He deserves only the best. I pray if it isn’t Vienna, he will find a wife worthy of him. I also hope all of the other girls on the show find their soul mate!

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sandy mcdonough

Posted at 2:56 PM on March 4, 2010  

why is tenley bashing jake and vienna? jake picked vienna because he loved her more than tenley and he wants to spend the rest of his life with her. you could see that the connection they had was more than he had with any of the other girls, just look at his face when they are together. i dont beleive what the tabloids say about vienna jake isnt that stupid that he couldnt see if these rumors were true. i think tenley is looking for a job on tv and the free publicity she gets from bashing jake is helping her. dont tell me she didnt hire a publicist as soon as the show was over.

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getbacktowork

Posted at 3:21 PM on March 4, 2010  

i don’t think she could’ve had a publicist b/c that comment did not help her. tenley is supposed to be above bitterness and not judgmental. i still love her, but that comment was disappointing.

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NYsquirels

Posted at 8:48 AM on March 7, 2010  

I agree. I think Tenley is still using the “feel sorry for me”
to advance her career since it did not work with Jake. I find her fake and so did Jake. In the last date they had together he was visibly uncomfortable in her presence.

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Miriam Rivera

Posted at 2:18 PM on March 4, 2010  

It’s obvious that the reason Jake chose Vienna was because of the sexual tension between them, however I think he made a mistake by choosing Vienna because Teneley by far is much more beautiful, sensual and a better match than Vienna.

I doubt the relationship will last!!! He will regret his decision.

That’s my opinion!!

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kate c

Posted at 2:17 PM on March 4, 2010  

I knew he was going to pick her. I watch the final rose like, which one would I pick for him and then I go for the other chick and I’m all ways right this way.

I didn’t like either girl. I liked Tenley’s look alike, she seemed like a well rounded girl.

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getbacktowork

Posted at 3:22 PM on March 4, 2010  

corrine. but corrine couldn’t open up to jake. the situation wasn’t right for her. but, yes, she was funny! she and tenley together were funny. they should marry twins.

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Helena B

Posted at 2:11 PM on March 4, 2010  

Wow people, you are making it seem as though this chick isn’t worthy of love. Tattoos, hair extensions, dyed hair OH MY! Seriously that does not equal trash, Scarlett Johansson definitely not trash. Vienna’s not even in my top 20, but Jake’s the one that has to be feeling her. I personally liked Tenley’s look alike.

Also, I think this show throws the word love around way too lightly.

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getbacktowork

Posted at 3:33 PM on March 4, 2010  

i don’t know that the show does that, but JAKE certainly does! he tried to hold back and say “falling for” lots of times, but he sure did say love a lot, too, and to too many girls!

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yelley

Posted at 2:10 PM on March 4, 2010  

Betsy, I’m neither related to Vienna nor do I know her anymore than you do!! The difference is I can appreciate and accept Jake’s decision and you can’t!! What you saw on TV was a bunch of girls banding together and ganging up on Vienna because she told them she was there to get married to Jake. The bottom line is, she was younger than most of them, (if not all of them), but she was more confident than they were and they saw her as a threat. Some of you are saying she’s ugly, or she looks like a horse, well evidently, it didn’t matter to Jake what she looks like. I wonder how many of you were in a relationship and people who didn’t know you thought you were not good enough for your partner? You people need to get over yourselves and move on because your opinion really doesn’t matter!! Jake picked the woman he wanted and if it bothers you, DEAL WITH IT!! If it doesn’t work out, it won’t be the first time an engagement was broken and it won’t be the last!!

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getbacktowork

Posted at 3:24 PM on March 4, 2010  

i agree. the other girls were jealous and joined the “mean girls” brigade. vienna taunted them a bit (for example, by telling ali she was going to jiggle her boobs in jake’s face! lol), which was immature, but funny. the other girls just couldn’t take it that she wasn’t interested in their cliques.

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gramof3

Posted at 6:29 PM on March 4, 2010  

Well said Yelley,
I really liked Tenley and thought she would be a perfect choice, but I knew Jake would pick Vienna because you could see the chemistry they had together.As for the dislike for Vienna by the other women , it reminded me of being in high school where jealous rivalry prevails .

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jay

Posted at 1:59 PM on March 4, 2010  

i glad jake picked vienna, she was more out spoken and did not hold anything back, she could have been really b—-chy to the other girls but she just walked away, you are afraid to give your feeling , you want to play by its like being a teenager, you are an adult, and did not show enought feeling towards jake.

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wilson

Posted at 1:56 PM on March 4, 2010  

Kissing her was like riding on a treadmill? Thats sounds awful. Did she really think he was complimenting her? He seemed so nice on the Bachelorette, but on the bachelor he just came off as so lame. I cant believe she fell for his line of B.S.

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yelley

Posted at 2:13 PM on March 4, 2010  

I AGREE!!

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getbacktowork

Posted at 3:32 PM on March 4, 2010  

i know?! what does that even mean, “riding on a treadmill”? how do you even “ride” on a treadmill? how could anyone think that was a compliment?! tenley, i do think you’re pretty close to perfect, but you are a little out of touch with reality sometimes.

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deanne

Posted at 10:15 PM on March 4, 2010  

I agree…I thought most of Jake’s dialogue was pretty rehearsed and just corny. He got rid of the ones he felt weren’t there, but he also led other girls on…Gia. If he felt like he had to “test” her, he should’ve let her go long before he finally got her to open herself up. That was just cruel. Gia should’ve been the next bachelorette…not Ali. I hope Gia finds love! TEAM GIA!!!

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getbacktowork

Posted at 1:07 PM on March 6, 2010  

I AGREE. gia would be a much better bachelorette than that monster ali.

 
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Barbara

Posted at 1:54 PM on March 4, 2010  

Jake diden’t deserve Tinely she was too good for him, he picked a ugly horse and no one liked her diden’t that tell him anything and no one could get along with her. I think Jake needs to grow up and pick a lady not a bar hopper and a bed jumper Vienna is all about her not anyone else and Jake will wake up when it is too late. I think Tenily should be Jake’s partner on dancing with the stars. but again she is too good for him.

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getbacktowork

Posted at 3:30 PM on March 4, 2010  

thank you for the “mean girls” opinion. for the record, not all of us agree with your thoughts about vienna.

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ron

Posted at 6:09 PM on March 4, 2010  

getbacktowork,i agree with barbara,the girl’s a tramp.After having some fun with Vienna,Jake will dump her,and they’ll never get married.

 
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getbacktowork

Posted at 6:47 PM on March 4, 2010  

if anyone does the dumping, it likely will be vienna. there is more chance of her getting bored than him. she’s a hot ticket, and by that, i don’t mean tramp. she’s young and vivacious. he’s a dork. nice, but a dork.

 
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Molly

Posted at 3:48 PM on March 4, 2010  

I agree with you I think that Vennia does look like a horse. I thought that Jake had more class than to pick a Hooter girl you could see that Vinna has been around the block many, many times she looks like she has been rode hard and put away wet. And I canno’t wait to see how she is going to act around his Sister-in-Laws they seems so sweet and she is not. I am glad that Ali left because I think his mind was made up early and she would have gotten her heart broken more sure hope she does good on her show. I do not feel sorry for Jake only thing he had better have a guard to watch her while is out flying because she is a rounder. As I said I thought he had more class than to pich her.

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jo

Posted at 8:03 PM on March 4, 2010  

I think at least 75 percent of the stuff that was published about her is true. Since when is a pole dancer and a hooter girl a fitness consultant. That is an insult to all fitness consultants. She will show her true colors soon enough but it will be too late for Ali and him. They were the best couple. She is just responsible and not a hoe using sex to get her a man like Vienna.

 
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JOY M.

Posted at 9:17 AM on March 6, 2010  

I am dizzy from reading the comments. The program is madeup to make it very interesting and get us all up in arms about the favorite choice we pick for the contestant.I didn’t care for his choice,and I think she will show her true colors and not be the glue to hold sister-in-laws togerther.I think some where down the line Jake who is so attached to his parents ways will see the light.There were too many tears and uncertainties that true love wasn’t there for many.We will see in about 6 months what life is like with a pilot who travels to many locations,after being exposed to the lime lite as he has been,and viseversa…….

 
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Donna

Posted at 9:27 AM on March 6, 2010  

I watched the Ellen show and I really do not think Tennley bashed Jake.She just expressed her feelings..
I do think Tenley would of been a better choice in the long run but let Jake & Vienna alone for now, only time will tell..

 
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