Vienna REALLY Wants To Get Married! Do You Think She's Ready?

Thu, February 25, 2010 2:45pm EDT by 3 Comments

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Experts agree that love isn’t enough to make a marriage between Vienna and Jake last!

Vienna Girardi, I have one question for you … do you think at 23 you’re mature enough to marry Jake Pavelka? Given your age and your partying past, you need to really consider what a commitment like marriage requires! My thoughts: you’re NOT ready to take the plunge, and our experts agree that love just isn’t enough to make it work!

Relationship expert and author, Maryanne Comaroto says, “I have been working with people for over thirty years and observe that change does not come without hard, concentrated efforts and seeing the consistent value in doing so. [Vienna] has no history of having displayed behaviors that would lead anyone to believe she will suddenly mature now. Very few people at this age do.”

Amy Levine, sex expert and founder of Sex Ed Solutions, agrees that “most people don’t change in the name of love. They change because they have hit rock bottom and choose to make it better for themselves, their partner and the relationship. Only Vienna knows if she has left her partying and promiscuity in the past.”

Statistics also prove that women who marry in their early ’20s have a higher rate of divorce. Maryanne points out that, according to divorcerate.org, “women who marry between the ages of 20-24 have a divorce rate of 36.6 percent, which is the highest — double that of 25-29 and quadruple of those 29-34 (which is 8 percent.”)

And Vienna, Maryanne says “lying, manipulation, seducing your partner to get what you want, bartering with sex, being self-serving, being untrustworthy, lacking respect for one’s self, and cheating” will make your relationship fail! So, if you want your life with Jake to last, you have to be completely honest and put your past behind you because marriage “is a committment to yourself, each other and the relationship… and it takes a lot of work,” Amy says.

- Lindsey DiMattina

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baby

Posted at 8:47 PM on March 3, 2010  

i hate vienna shes so fat and ugly

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getbacktowork

Posted at 2:17 PM on February 25, 2010  

i like vienna and found her to be one of the more honest and in touch with herself. the people that pretend they’re just being altruistic when they’re just playing games to win, are full of crap (ali being one of these people). vienna has never pretended that she’s not doing everything she can to get jake because she thinks he is perfect. even when she “snuck down” to see him on her date with gia, she didn’t sneek. she flat out told gia she was going to see him. when you really think about behaviors on the show, i never saw her be dishonest about anything. most women just aren’t used to someone who is so bold and confident and unfiltered. all of this stuff about her past- i don’t see the big deal. frankly, people that party it up and are confident in their sexuality are usually the least likely to cheat. cheaters are usually people that are looking for someone to make them feel better about themselves. i’m not swearing my child’s life on vienna, but she’s just as good a choice as any of them and only jake can really tell what is going to float his boat. (for example, my guess is that tenley and he are too similar for her to keep his interest.)

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Rae

Posted at 11:48 AM on February 25, 2010  

she is the TYPICAL florida female. i’m a transplant to the state and the girls here act and look THE SAME. they ALSO believe they aren’t worth ANYTHING without a man. vienna is GROSS AND WITHOUT BRAINS. the bachelor deserves all the drama he’s going to get with her AND the show is pathetic to begin with.

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